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Creating Bridges: The Spiritual & Philosophical :
The BUT Doctor
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WA Relationship Pop Quiz
Creating Self Love and
Attracting a Life Mate
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I Please, complete this sentence. "I want a relationship, but most men are __________________?" Or, I want a relationship, but most women are___________________?"
What is your belief about finding an eligible partner? Do you believe he or she really exists? Are all of the good lovers taken? Are they already married? And my favorite question is, are they gay? You will learn a lot about yourself by simply taking a moment to answer the first question.
Several years ago, some clients asked me to teach a class about how to attract a life partner. Though I knew the class would be successful, I was hesitant to facilitate a gathering on the subject since I had been single for over five years. Instead of saying no to the class, I asked for guidance. The answer came visually. In my mind's eye I saw a flier that read "Creating Self Love - Attracting a Life Mate" The title felt right and the rest is history, I have been conducting this workshop every year since.
Being an intuitive person my whole life has made me conscious of the energy patterns that govern our physical lives. For the last ten years I've harnessed this ability as a Soul Intuitive to assist people in understanding how they create the life they're living.
How Do You Talk To You?
I don't believe I've ever met a person who consistently speaks loving thoughts to themselves. It's been my experience that we are harder on ourselves than anyone else could be. We may have self esteem issues or weight problems even sadness that we think about over and over in our minds. I have found that we spend more time discussing our short comings and flaws than we talk about our beauty, power or strength.
Have you ever called yourself "stupid" or "idiotic"? Have you looked at yourself and felt insecure for whatever reason? All the while smiling at the world around you, keeping a stiff upper life (for the world) so that no one would figure out that you were not enough in some way? Haven't you ever wondered why you continue to attract the same type of person to you again and again in intimate relationships?
In the late 80's I visited a psychic who told me the person that I was involved with was mirroring my insecurities back to me tenfold. She went on to explain (in detail) that as long as I was hard on myself, this partner would magnify that hardness in overly exaggerated ways. At that moment my heart and soul knew that she was accurate but in my hard head and self doubt I didn't quite understand the over all picture. Maybe I just didn't want to understand. I remember thinking that the loss of my partner would be far worse that whatever I was going through.
I stayed in the relationship another six months before learning a valuable lesson. "Whatever you believe, you get!" In other words, whatever you believe inside (or feel inside about yourself) is exactly what you attract from the outside world. This belief is an inner magnet that is activated each time we have a thought, memory, discussion, observation or feeling about a potential partner.
The truth is, we don't have to wait until we've attracted a potential partner to activate this belief pattern, all we have to do is desire a partner and activate this invisible magnetic pull from inside of us, to the outside world. And before we know it, "Presto, Mr. or Miss. Right or Wrong is standing before us scratching their head with confusion. Inevitably everything with him or her is great for the first few months and then, all of a sudden without warning, BAM! We've repeated the same invisible patterns again and the honeymoon is over before the true relationship begins.
Let's start back from the top. How did you answer the question earlier? "I want a relationship but most men/women are__________________________________?"
Does your answer feel good to you or does it feel bad? Remember, I didn't ask you if you believe your answer, or for you to state a dozen justifications about how you've come to this conclusion. I just want to know how the answer feels.
Does it Feel Good or Does it Feel Bad?
If you feel disheartened by your answer you want to begin immediately to focus caring energy onto the most important person on the planet. YOU!
If you sincerely want to attract Mr. or Miss Right, you have to begin with YOU FIRST. Honestly, you have to start from the inside out. No, I'm not talking about doing an energetic house cleaning or excavating skeletons in your romantic closets. I'm talking about feeling and honoring yourself from your heart and soul's perspective.
This exercise is not about action. It's about feeling your full unlimited potential to communicate from your higher self to your conscious thinking mind in a successful manner. It is allowing the best, most successful, most healthy you to mentor the parts of you that need a boost.
Get clear about what you DO WANT to experience with you, for your higher good, your desires. How do you want to feel in every aspect of your life? When you're happy with who you are and you begin to feel loving emotions and thoughts toward yourself, then you will attract a person who will effortlessly mirror those feelings back to you. Thus you will create a win-win relationship with yourself and with a fantastic partner, remember you will be mirroring them too.
Appreciate the strengths that you possess that make you feel empowered, attractive and filled with light. As you practice this new habit you will break the old patterns of "not enough" and begin new patterns that feel emotionally prosperous to you, from the inside out.
Make a list of five things that you appreciate about yourself. What do you consider to be your greatest strength? Are you patient, kind, loving, a good listener, a cautious driver, determined, a good student, dedicated, and/or innately cheerful? Which physical characteristic are you proud of? Do you have great ear lobes, eyebrows, feet? Is your skin extra soft, your eyes extra blue or your butt extra firm? What inspires you? What lifts your spirit? Do you appreciate music, art, a sunset, watching someone try their best and succeed? Love yourself internally and make a conscious choice to stop looking for your lover in the outside world before you develop a loving appreciation for you. Don't wait for a partner to fulfill your needs do it for yourself and the Universe will deliver proof that your new energy patterns are working.
In short, you cannot attract a life mate to you who can or will make you happier than you've learned to be yourself. As we love ourselves we attract love to us.
Have fun with all of this. Make multiple lists exposing your true Soul Identity. Pat yourself on the back more for doing great work and for choosing to feel great about you first.
A special teacher once told me, "The joy is always in the journey." Be in the act of joy with you more consistently and you will attract a joyful mate that enhances your life. In other words, don't wait until the new partner shows up before you choose to be happy--be happy now and your life mate will be drawn to your glow.
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Eddie Conner,
Author & Soul Intuitive
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Eddie Conner has achieved international acclaim as a Soul Intuitive, humorist, speaker and the author of The Big BUT Syndrome™.
To date Eddie has shared his metaphysical teachings on thousands of radio stations in the U.S. and is currently creating a show for national television syndication. Eddie is a contributing writer for The Power Agent and The Caster Magazines in Los Angeles.
He's the founder of the Spirit Light Expo ~ Merging Movies, Magic & Metaphysics™ and conducts tours to Peru and the Far East. Eddie and his teeny weenie BUT live in Los Angeles, California.
Soul Awareness with Eddie Conner (818) 734-9392
www.EddieConner.com
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