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Creating Bridges: Spirituality & Philosophy:
Blending Human and Divine Love
Blending Human
and Divine Love
Part II
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Sex vs. Love
When you ask yourself the question, “Who Am I?”, a number of answers can arise. The answers will always lead you back to the same place, by your experiences, individually. They may show up in many different ways that will “fit” with you so that you can adjust your specific energies around them, and have them make sense to you. The simplicity of the answer(s), however, doesn’t necessarily come in words, but in the intelligence of your energy to feel and remember.
“You are an individual energy structure with a name and a story” may be one energetic answer because you have created a history of your own that has memories attached to it. Plus, you can see yourself in the mirror.
“You are a vibrational imprint with a specific scent” could be a deeper level of the first answer. It is saying that the body and the story come with something not usually seen by the physical eyes, but is uniquely yours. There is an intelligence that goes beyond the physical body and carries specific characteristics.
“You are the Creator of your existence” might show up then, because everything that you sense in any way is not coming from the guy sitting next to you. It’s coming from you and YOUR existence.
This is the one where things can get tricky. The belief systems may say otherwise, but still, there is a truth in feeling the energy of it.
“You are Love” is the next thing that might show up once you see that you’re a Creator, which by any relevant human terms doesn’t even begin to touch the energetic significance of the word “love”. Yet it is the one thing that presents itself to be recognized as a force greater than anything. Spiritual and religious practices seem to all center around this word.
These are the simplistic energetic answers to the question, “who am I”, even though they may seem complicated. When the answers get very complicated and confusing is when you can quickly recognize that the human mind has entered. The human mind is structured in a way that it will want to attach human belief systems to the answers. You know this is true when you can take yourself in a circle with no apparent way to find freedom.
In an earlier article, love was discussed on a human belief level and also on a non-charged Divine level. In a Divine awareness, this is what love looked like:
It is not connected to anything, and it doesn’t have any attachments that hold it in place.
It is not contained within any package, human or otherwise.
It can’t be limited or labeled.
It certainly doesn’t come from the mind, and it cannot judge right or wrong.
But what is Divine Love when looking at the sexual nature of human beings?
As we proceed through the transitional states of awareness, we also ask about the role that sex plays in the understanding of love. And with the understanding that there is indeed more to us than a human body when the question of “Who Am I?” enters, we are greeted with a deeper understanding of self.
The body is an aspect of the soul, and the soul is an aspect of the Whole (I’m going to use the word “God” in place of the word “Whole”, but feel free to use any word that describes that concept to you.) The spirit carries out the vibration or signature of the soul and gives it life and personality.
God is made up of many different soul aspects. Every one of these aspects are made up of love. Energy itself is made of love, and love is a self-propelling force. Love does not recognize good or bad, but simply creates the energy of what God is.
To get to this perception, judgment must be cleared of the word “love” in order to see it for what it really is.
Because love has no judgment, it will respond, perfectly to what You as a Creator, ask of it. The Creator asks love to create in many different ways. Sometimes the Creator asks love to create through the Creator’s thoughts. If the thoughts have any limitations or fears, then love will create through those limits or fears. It has no judgments. Love is the “energy” of God, and “love” loves self. It loves self so deeply that it automatically responds quite literally and perfectly to self.
An “individual” soul only thinks that it’s individual as long as there is a belief that it is separate from God or True Self; as long as love has judgment. No separation from God may unclearly sound egotistical in that we live within the structure of our own belief systems, and the beliefs tend to say otherwise.
The beliefs are layered with every thought, feeling, emotion, and concept that the collective also holds. This makes them strong. When any one of the gazillions of aspects of Self anywhere in the omniverse has a thought of separation, that thought validates the structure of belief in separation to hold it in place.
These structures may be so deeply imbedded into the web of our existence that they may seem elusive and difficult to see. So it is not in the fears of the ego (power, force) that you may say You are God, but in the clarity that you do. That clarity has you seeing that every single soul is an aspect of God, and that from your perspective that is Who You Are. It also says that every one of the aspects of God that you see through your eyes of God are also that same God.
Now let’s look the relationship between Who You Are and the way in which you may choose to express yourself with the understanding of Love.
Sexual energy
Sexual energy is a very potent energy to be looked at. Sex holds energy, gives energy and takes energy. It is used to fill and be filled, and in a human state, carries with it the basic elements of duality. The duality will be there if the concept of love is limited. It is a very commanding metaphorical act that utilizes the energies of the human state to find and feel a Oneness that can be experienced through the euphoria of orgasm. It is one of the most powerful ways to take, hold, and enslave the already held energy within a being.
There is a confusion that says being “filled” with another’s energy will help or hinder the process of finding self. (There is the belief that says we should take on another’s energy to find more completeness.) As you come to the basic simplicity of God as being self, and see that others are also aspects of self, you will also see that you cannot possibly be filled or siphoned of anything, because you already are THAT.
There is also confusion with sex in the finding of oneself. You live on a planet that has billions of soul aspects of self. You have seen and experienced these aspects of self over and over again before the human vessel even existed and throughout the ages of humanity. Quite often, you meet another human and have a “connection” or soul memory of them. In that soul memory there is comfort, irritation, joy, apathy, etc. Remember, you also have a desire to know self.
You may also feel that you are “in love” with another person because of that connection. With only the human perspective of love, that person or aspect of you will be “held” in your energies as deserving more “love” from you than another.
Taking and giving of energy are simply signs of duality and work with each other. In cloudiness, feelings or emotions come up when you see that aspect of self. The cloudiness may have you thinking that you wish to give to or take energy from that other human. If there is comfort with them, you may want to take more of that comfort. With irritation, you may want to take back what was once yours. With joy, you may want to give comfort. With apathy, you may want to give or take just to feel.
In clarity, you see the eyes you meet along your path and immediately have a deeper understanding that there are many reasons why you now meet. You live in a clear moment and watch as the story unfolds itself. In cloudiness, you remember sex as a way to feel closest to the One and upon having any type of emotional reaction to that person, use sex as a way to validate the emotion. This creates a stronger structure around the confusion of sexual energy.
In clarity, there are many ways to understand the feelings and emotions you may have when that “connection” happens. The connection doesn’t have to mean sex. It means that the time has come for the understanding of another aspect of self.
Love
It is not connected to anything, and it doesn’t have any attachments that hold it in place.
It is not contained within any package, human or otherwise.
It can’t be limited or labeled.
It certainly doesn’t come from the mind, and it cannot judge right or wrong.
As we live on this planet, we also live with the metaphors that tell us about ourselves. Just as day and night are not only metaphors of light and dark, conscious and unconscious creation, and life and death, making love is also a metaphor.
Both sex and making love can and do create and birth energetic structures that carry the traits of the ones who created them. These are the children of our experiences and holdings. They are a true manifestation and creation that also have the ability to create on their own.
In the physical reality, two energies come together and co-create an energetic structure that is a physical manifestation of self. But what happens when it is understood that all is love, you are an aspect of a God that is you, and therefore, can no longer take from self because you don’t have to?
The “neutral child” is created and birthed. It does not need an energetic structure that is created from the positive and negative charges of older energy. It does not need a body to live out karmic cycles, and is free to create on its own. It is balanced clarity that has the freedom to create more of itself with self.
This is what making love may look like in a balanced, neutral experience:
You have a non-linear moment with another person where there are no past or future holdings involved. In that moment, you allow yourself to become 100% One with that other person. In other words, 100% of you is theirs and them. It is a still moment that does not have energy flowing through it in a linear fashion, but expands in all different directions at once.
The experience comes to an end in the physical reality, however in the non-linear moment, the energy of it continues on in a timeless fashion. The “neutral child” that is born is the clear experience that is freed to continue on without being held by its Creators.
Sharing a sexual experience with another in a non-linear, Divine moment means not acting from a past emotional attachment to anything. It also means not trying to create a future. It is the Divine act of sharing love with oneself and allowing that experience to unfold into itself and continue on.
What can be created with the expression of love between two people happens in a still moment that cannot be held because it has nothing holding it. It is the experiencing of another aspect of You, the Creator so there is no separation between you and you. There is only creation and the expression of that creation. It is You making love with Self.
Clearing the “charge”
If there are any fears around the energy of love and sex, then there is also the desire to remove the charges of the fears so that expression and love are found in clarity.
The collective consciousness is saying that it is time to release the limited yet firm structures that have been built upon. Release the structures that say that love has anything to do with fear. In it’s true sense, it doesn’t recognize the fear for the illusion that it is, but creates whatever the fear is. There is no judgment.
Fear may appear to be a shadow in energy, but in reality, it is simply held energy with an emotional charge that says it real. It is the veil that makes it cloudy and difficult to see what is beyond it.
When you have a question, look at your belief systems that are causing you the confusion. Look deeply into the concept, thought, emotion, or manifestation of the thing that you question. If separation is questioned, look to what you feel you are separate from. As you consciously see what you are separate from, allow your divine observer to non-judgmentally see it for exactly what it is, not what you want or think it should be. Open the doors of your mind and divinely see energy and structure.
Upon seeing the simplistic nature of the energy of the belief structure, open up your arms to it and welcome it in the door. It (the energy structure of every aspect of separation) is an aspect of you, the Creator. It has so intently wanted to be seen by its Creator and honored home for its service to You. Upon accepting this particular piece of structure of your beliefs back home, it too is freed. This particular piece of you no longer needs to be held in place.
With the observation, acceptance, and release of a piece of the structure, you move to a deeper, yet more vibrationally expanded layer of belief. In that deeper, more expanded layer, energy will continually get “looser” and more pliable to work with.
Many Blessings,
Ornesha |
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Ornesha De Paoli,
Author, Clairvoyant/Audiovoyant
Co-Founder of the O.A.R. Method
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Author
Clairvoyant/Audiovoyant
Co-Founder of the O.A.R. Method
Reiki Master
Energy Balancer
Ascension Coach
Conflict Resolution Intermediary
Nuclear Weapons Safety Procedures Auditor
Every moment for the past twenty years has been a spiritual practice for me. The practice, however, has taken me into the world of the living, breathing human. Without ever (in this lifetime) having a group or affiliation to look to for answers, it became apparent a long time ago, that the answers would come from me.
My life has been artistically constructed to observe, without judgment, the dual nature of humanity’s existence, and in that, locate the steps to move beyond it. Thus, I have become a “poster child” of navigating through the web of the human belief systems.
In 2004, I consciously set out to unravel each system while at the same time, considering how rapidly a human body could endure the balancing and neutralizing of all beliefs and controls we’ve placed upon ourselves.
Working in conjunction with, and through the assistance of many Guides and Ascended Masters, it has become apparent that the opportunity of living in Ascension while living as a Human has come. The result comes in creating from a new heart center that is found in Divine Neutrality.
Divine Neutrality is where the concept of Ascension lies. It is in the complete understanding of Self without the safety net of fears, judgments, or doubts. It is where the human body no longer holds the limitations of the human condition and becomes free to blend with Divinity. It is where all pieces of self are brought back in, honored, and freed to form The One.
The O.A.R. Method has been developed to take us through these belief systems in a very systematic way in order to neutralize and balance them. In the neutralization of the human experience, the body will no longer hold or attach itself to being "just" human, and in the process, move beyond duality itself into enlightenment.
Ornesha resides in a quiet town north of Santa Fe, New Mexico where she devotes her time to being an example of love to her two children and a guide to those who seek.
For more information on personal assistance, workshops, or retreats please see our website:
Web Site:
http://www.unfoldintoone.
com
Phone: 505-455-3208
Email: ornesha1@yahoo.com
info@unfoldintoone.com
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