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Alternative Health & Healing:
Transformational Healing
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Today: Why are we so insecure that “what we are is not enough”?
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Dear Reader, Dear Writer!
Hello to everyone!
Do you have a part about your Self that you want to hide and cover up so that nobody can ever know about it (1)? What is it that the world should not see about you (2)? What are you afraid to expose (3)?
We talk about the God within ourselves all the time, but why are we afraid to expose God? Why can’t we let our light shine? Do you not believe that you shine from within? What keeps you from shining (4)?
When you read those questions, what do you feel (5)? Do you believe that you express your Self the way you can – the way it is IN you? Or do you find already that you could do better??? What does that image look like of your Self that you are heading towards to take on – to become completely? Where is that image that you adore (6)? Is it outside of your Self? Is it standing in front of you? Try to describe it!
I really recommend you to take a pencil and a piece of paper and to write down what your answers are while you read this article. Feel free to experience while reading!
How would you describe your Self now? What is missing in your idea to fit your perfect image of yourself (7)?
Why do you think your expression is only perfect when you are like your picture perfect image (8)? Think, why do you judge that image that you express now (9)?
Did you answer these nine questions? I have asked some clients to do so for me and what was really interesting was that the answers were very similar (including mine).
1) Yes, we do feel we have to hide something about us.
2) Everyone has a different subject or better a secret about themselves which he/she wants to hide
3) Depending on the subject the fears circle around humiliation and embarrassment
4) We feel we don’t have enough to offer…..
5) The feelings vary from sadness to disappointment and mostly SHAME
6) We see that perfect image in front of ourselves or outside of ourselves floating or surrounded by light.
7) We feel we could be more trusting, more open, letting life just happen, go with it, going for the fun of experiencing without getting wrapped up about results and goals – without competition and without fear.
8) …because the picture perfect image is always happy, always loving, always accepting, always perfect.
9) …we judge ourselves because we feel we hide a secret about ourselves which makes us ashamed of our identity
By thinking and believing we need to hide our identity life gets exhausting because we keep worrying so much about how to distract the world from seeing us. We act “as if we were perfect” (we “are” but we don’t believe it right then) thinking all the time it is an act. Thinking it is an act of imitating perfection and not the truth about ourselves keeps us separated from wholeness. We feel the need to keep on acting. Having to hide our shame, our fear and our secrets is pulling us down keeping us from shining our God Self forth.
We are not ashamed of God, but we are ashamed of our identity. How can we express our God Self within us when we keep concentrating so much on what we need to cover up? It certainly is difficult.
When we hear then that our true identity is God and that we are perfect all the time it gets confusing and it feels not right. It feels as if it is true for everyone but us.
Did we ever ask ourselves HOW GOD FEELS ABOUT HIMSELF? Does God have feelings? We think God has no feelings – God experiences himself through us. God is LOVE in itself.
God wanted all of us to be the way we seem to be – God loves us the way we are – for all that we are – God made us in his own image…..
Can we love God the way God seems to be? Do we love the image of God? What is our image of God?
Is it possible that God needs to experience our love for some reason? Is our love important for God?
We need the love of God, we need the love of our Self. Is that true for God?
Didn’t we learn that what is true in the microcosm is true in macrocosm – everything is identical? The human life – all that we experience is a set up to learn to love what is. To love for no reason at all – but for loving in itself! To LOVE TO LOVE – LOVING TO LOVE…..just like the song says….I love to love…..
Is it that by loving God and trusting God we give ourselves back what we truly are? God is only LOVE, unconditional love, God has no judgment, God doesn’t want anything? Unconditional love includes the love of Self. We learn to love everyone and everything including ourselves? Who says that God is perfect in the way of our image of perfect? God just is!
God is perfect the way IT is. We are perfect the way we are. We don’t have to keep wanting to be different. It is alright just the way it is. Every step of our way is exactly where we are supposed to be. The mango is ripe when it falls from the tree – and that happens not one day too early, not one day late. The same with you don’t rush – just relax and just be what you are. There is no problem, there is no hiding of a secret possible, because there is only one mind and only one heart. Everything is connected, we are all one and there can not be hidden anything. You might as well just expose what you fear the most. You will find out how freeing that feels and how close you feel with the rest of the world that is just like you! And by doing that you suddenly make room within yourself for being the God that you are, that shines and shines and just is without judgment and that loves what is - the way it is. You will realize that your picture perfect image is not outside of your Self – it is YOU already, has always been. But because you were so busy trying to hide something that everyone has and everyone knows – you blocked yourself from realizing and seeing this truth about your Self.
Trust God and love God the way HE/SHE/IT loves you. Reach out and walk in faith that all that is - is meant to be just the way it is and embrace life the way it unfolds knowing that in the right time you see that perfect Self emerging out of you just by itself – just when you are ready to see and feel it – just when your divine plan has prepared it for you to unfold. By trying so hard to be different we keep putting off being ourselves. The word trying in itself separates us in itself - trying means not being convinced that it really can happen or is already.
Know that you lose your insecurity when it is meant to be for you. You can’t force anything and you can’t make it seem to be something that it is not. That is exactly what we don’t want to accept, because we want to have control of that. Surrender means accepting this fact that it happens when it happens. All is in divine order.
I love you all.
Eva
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Eva Kettles,
Spiritual Channel & Healer
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Eva Kettles is a spiritual channel, and guide who offers a sensitive, confidential, non-intrusive, results-oriented approach of clearing the pathway to becoming your True Self….consciously uncovering your Divine Essence.
Mrs. Kettles acts as a “loving detective” to give you clear guidance to your life questions. Working with the healing energy of the Violet Flame, Eva will transform your blocks in all the dimensions that make up your entire being so you can live according to your divine plan and purpose. Release deep seated fears, thought patterns and beliefs that keep you from expressing your authentic self.
Through a process of forgiveness and with the loving presence and help of our spirit guides, Eva enables healing to take place in mind, body, heart and soul. Eva offers individual guidance, fertility counseling, premarital guidance, couples coaching, space clearing and prayer/blessings.
Eva was born and raised in Germany. After finishing business school in Switzerland she discovered her ‘real’ passion for the eternal questions of Life that everybody has, but to which few people discover the answers.
To that end, she decided to become a holistic practitioner. During this education she got a wide background in all available alternative therapy disciplines.
Towards the end of her studies she decided to specialize in Bio-photonic Light Therapy (by Darbic, Dr. Acquillera, France), Frequency/Electrotherapy (Megawave 150), Color puncture, Regenaplex Cellular Therapy (Switzerland), Karma work, Hypnosis and Forgiveness work and opened her own practice first in Munich, than another one in Lucerne, Switzerland. Later, she established a healthy practice in New York City before moving to Ojai, California in March of 2004.
Eva was the protégé of Dr. Gutow in Germany. . He dedicated his whole life to finding out the reasons behind all illnesses. He took into account food, drinks, toxic surroundings or materials, homeopathic remedies in too high frequencies, astral positions, divine paths, karmic constellations, spells, entities and energies that block our good to come forth.
Dr. Gutow could access the highest self or spiritual guidance of each person and discovered that Eva had the ability to do the same work that he was doing. Using the analytical test that was developed by Dr. Gutow, Eva could immediately find out which therapy would work for which client. She explains: “It is like a key and a lock. We have to find the right key to unlock our good. Some keys work, some don’t!”
Having been blessed with many teachers, including Nadeen Shatyam , she learned that once you trust your inner voice you become connected to the universal truth and you do not need to look outside of yourself.
Everything is within us when we finally learn to believe it. Her goal is to help you to find and establish that trust in yourself. Having walked the path to self return, she knows how to guide others.
Phone:(805) 646-9399
www.uncoveryour
essence.com
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