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Alternative Health & Healing:
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Today: Why do we hold on to our past?
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Dear Reader, Dear Writer!
Hello to everyone!
Do you have a friend that feels like his or her life sucks? Do you feel your life sucks? What do people usually do when they are unhappy? What is ourreaction towards life?
When we are dissatisfied, we try to find reasons for our circumstances. Mainly we find it easy to blame others - for instance our parents, our childhood, our teachers, our former husband or wife. We blame someone or something for our experiences and we believe that our experiences are the reason why we are the way we are in our present reality. We keep on talking about our problems constantly - we think it makes us feel better when we talk it out and when we feel the compassion of our friends and family. We are sometimes interested in another opinion or advice but too often we believe that there is no good solution for our problem anyway, because the solution would involve changing something within us. Since we are not feeling the strength to change we would rather believe that there is no way out of what the problem is, because we are used to seeing ourselves powerless.
We certainly need to give ourselves time to feel what we feel and to grief over whatever happened. I don't want to make you feel guilty in any way if you talk about your problems - I just want to help you recognize a pattern in your Self if you are fitting this description. All of you know that whatever has happened has happened and it is already lying in the past. It can't be changed anymore and so it is not necessary to judge -what it has been. It is out of our reach to control it, to change it or to influence it. But still we keep on putting so much energy into it as if we had the power to change our past into something else!
It feels comforting when we can say that we would be different if we hadn't had this or that experience that makes it impossible for us to lift ourselves off the ground. But has this served us until today? We make it sound as if we have no choices whatsoever. But is that true? Are we a victim of our experiences or our past? Is our past that which we are? Are we defining ourselves through what we have experienced? In general we do, don't we? But is that really who we are??? We are not our past, we are not ourexperiences - we are much more than that.
Our past forms us - our past has definitely an enormous impact on us. But can our experiences of our past really define who we are in this very moment???
Can't we just simply choose something else right here right now! Who do you want to be? What do you want to experience in the different subjects of importance to you - for instance relationships, friendships, parenthood, work, spare time, physical, sexual?
What do you think keeps you from experiencing this exact "outcome of your choice"? What is it that holds you captured?
Did you guess already? Did you find the answer? Yes, it is you - you alone! Nobody else is responsible for what you are right now. But you can start all over again from the beginning. You can choose to be different!
Choose what you want to feel and simply begin to feel it. Ask the feeling to come to you. Begin to see the feeling as an entity in itself. It has a name and it has a purpose. Call it to be a part of your experience in your life.
If it is LOVE - ask LOVE to be you.
If it is HAPPINESS - ask HAPPINESS to be you.
If it is PASSION - ask PASSION to be you.
If it is GENEROSITY - ask GENEROSITY to be you.
If it is HEALTH - ask HEALTH to be you.
You see it can go on and on and on. You choose! You choose what you want tofeel and what you want to be. It is all out there and it is all within you. It is always there, it is there for you in this very second. You need to want it - you need to make the choice that you want it and you need to open yourself up to receive it. You need to let it happen! You need to let it in!
If you hold on to your past this cannot happen, because you block the newfeeling from arising within you. You have stuffed yourself up to the top with resentment, anger, grief, madness and untrusting feelings and there is no space for love, joy, faith and all of the feelings that you wish.
We all want the same things in life. We want to have an absolute fulfilling relationship, we want to be healthy, abundant and prosper. We want to be appreciated, respected and successful. We want to be present, full of good deeds and thoughts. But something keeps holding us back, like a huge weight on our arms and feet. We think we need to go somewhere to take these chains off, we think we can't walk towards freedom since the load is far too heavy. But freedom is right there where you are. It is a matter of thinking. It is a matter of your belief. If you believe you are free - you are free. If youbelieve you are rich - you are rich. If you believe you are loved - you are loved.
The microcosm produces in small what the macrocosm produces in big. All is connected. The universe is the macrocosm and it reacts towards the reality within your belief system. It can't see the difference - are you "only" believing you are rich or are you "already experiencing wealth"? But it will definitely react towards your belief and if you haven't already been wealthy in the past you are soon - by "sending out the vibration of feeling rich".
I know it all sounds very easy - because it is - but only if you believe this too. Again it is all in you what you choose your experience to be. You are the creator of your life circumstances. You are the power. You are everything.You are definitely not your past and not your future. But you can create
your future different from your past when you allow yourself to empty your basket of pain, grief, anger and resentment and of your past experiences. Forgive everybody! Let them go, let your Self go - finally - be different from now on! In order to achieve that in a way that is not so overwhelming I suggest to make little steps and to change one thing at a time. Ask yourself what you want to change in your life in general and then choose one thing for the next few days. Then choose another thing for the next few days and so on. But start with something simple and praise yourself for doing so well!
Maybe you drive everyday to work and you choose the same route every day. Choose a different path.
Maybe you are usually very opinionated and have an answer to everything already - (just like me!), then allow your Self to let other people figure it out by themselves. And this is my assignment for this week. So I will leave you now - knowing that you don't need anyone but your own belief that you can do it and that you know everything your Self.
Many blessings,
Eva
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Eva Kettles,
Spiritual Channel & Healer
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Eva Kettles is a spiritual channel, and guide who offers a sensitive, confidential, non-intrusive, results-oriented approach of clearing the pathway to becoming your True Self….consciously uncovering your Divine Essence.
Mrs. Kettles acts as a “loving detective” to give you clear guidance to your life questions. Working with the healing energy of the Violet Flame, Eva will transform your blocks in all the dimensions that make up your entire being so you can live according to your divine plan and purpose. Release deep seated fears, thought patterns and beliefs that keep you from expressing your authentic self.
Through a process of forgiveness and with the loving presence and help of our spirit guides, Eva enables healing to take place in mind, body, heart and soul. Eva offers individual guidance, fertility counseling, premarital guidance, couples coaching, space clearing and prayer/blessings.
Eva was born and raised in Germany. After finishing business school in Switzerland she discovered her ‘real’ passion for the eternal questions of Life that everybody has, but to which few people discover the answers.
To that end, she decided to become a holistic practitioner. During this education she got a wide background in all available alternative therapy disciplines.
Towards the end of her studies she decided to specialize in Bio-photonic Light Therapy (by Darbic, Dr. Acquillera, France), Frequency/Electrotherapy (Megawave 150), Color puncture, Regenaplex Cellular Therapy (Switzerland), Karma work, Hypnosis and Forgiveness work and opened her own practice first in Munich, than another one in Lucerne, Switzerland. Later, she established a healthy practice in New York City before moving to Ojai, California in March of 2004.
Eva was the protégé of Dr. Gutow in Germany. . He dedicated his whole life to finding out the reasons behind all illnesses. He took into account food, drinks, toxic surroundings or materials, homeopathic remedies in too high frequencies, astral positions, divine paths, karmic constellations, spells, entities and energies that block our good to come forth.
Dr. Gutow could access the highest self or spiritual guidance of each person and discovered that Eva had the ability to do the same work that he was doing. Using the analytical test that was developed by Dr. Gutow, Eva could immediately find out which therapy would work for which client. She explains: “It is like a key and a lock. We have to find the right key to unlock our good. Some keys work, some don’t!”
Having been blessed with many teachers, including Nadeen Shatyam , she learned that once you trust your inner voice you become connected to the universal truth and you do not need to look outside of yourself.
Everything is within us when we finally learn to believe it. Her goal is to help you to find and establish that trust in yourself. Having walked the path to self return, she knows how to guide others.
Phone:(805) 646-9399
www.uncoveryour
essence.com
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