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Creating Bridges: Spirituality & Philosophy:
Blending Human and Divine Love
Letting Go
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A Divine Parent
Letting go is a natural by-product of creation. But because of the fears that have been associated with letting go, we tend to hold on to our treasures or loved ones so that they can be safe and protected.
In understanding the foundation of the creating process, releasing your creations is simply and importantly the other half of creating your creations. Thus, if you are clear and actively creating from clarity, you cannot hold on to something and still remain clear.
There is a fear that will tell you to “stockpile” or protect what you create. That is only there because of the belief that it can get harmed or taken away.
Clarity means that there is nothing stopping you from having all that you desire. There is no held energy that says otherwise. There are no blockages and energy is free to move as it was meant to.
Letting go doesn’t mean suffering. It doesn’t mean that you have to give something up or lose something. It means freeing the energy that you’ve held around it. It means neutralizing and balancing the fears that have been held inside your existence that bind you. Releasing means just that…Releasing.
When an energy is freed, it begins to synchronistically work with you. It is no longer held and limited. The human mind is structured by beliefs, and within these beliefs are the limits to which we experience life.
Belief systems are what control energy and limit the mind. Consequently when you create, you are creating from those limited beliefs. Thus, your creations are also limited to your human fears.
There are two different concepts of release. One is more of a “human release” where energy is considered let go of, however, fears keep it held to some degree. This is still controlling the energy according to how you believe it should be controlled. There is also a “Divine release” where energy is loved and honored for what it is and is given the freedom to create on it’s own without your belief’s limits.
The difference in energy working with you (Divine release) as opposed to it working for you (Human control), and it is an important part of freeing energy. To free it in a Divine release has it working WITH you and not FOR you. When it is working with you it is not held. It is not pulled to you or forced to be yours.
Whatever you truly balance and let go of actually becomes an extension of you. It does so when you no longer need to control because of the fear of being out of control. It becomes You.
In other words, your being extends out a little more to fully take in what you want to release. As you acknowledge and love what you take in, you expand. You don’t have the blockages of held energy to keep you from expanding out to meet all of self. You expand into everything and everything IS you to work with.
Most generally, we look to release all things that don’t feel good to us, and this releases the fears that have caused them to not feel so good. There are, however, many emotions to be released around the love we hold for those close to us. Habitually, the love we have for others is tied to a great amount of karmic and/or belief structured fears.
And so while we tend to focus on the ones that are more obviously about fear, the ones that hold “love” for us are often forgotten until we see the fear, and then believe that it is suppose to be there because of the love.
The Divine Parent
My son is turning 18 and heading off to college to begin his own life. I watch as his decisions are taking shape and I see the clarity in them. The clarity is there because we are both allowing each other to be individual Creators and no longer holding karmic energies between us.
The love a mother or a father has for a child is a strongly connected love. It is one of the human loves that could quite possibly hold the most attachments since children are our greatest and most profound creations.
Humanity has had the understanding and the beliefs from which these understandings come from that say that we hold our children’s energy. We do this to keep them safe from harm. We protect and we nurture. We unconsciously understand that karma can be tricky and so as parents, we’re “on guard” against it.
Deeply, we know that it is our energy coming around again. It is a continued aspect of ourselves that we birth, whether we are a male or a female. We’ve all been in a bit of confusion, though, thinking that we were somehow separate from them.
The separation is a belief. The karmic and genetic mirror of them is a way to see ourselves through them. It is a way to understand unconditional love as best we can with the limits that we have.
Parenthood is a job that we hold sacred and it is usually and very easily second nature. This also goes beyond the minds thinking ability. It is an automatic response, and to let them and the holdings from our “human” love go is automatically fought against.
I’m a full-time, single mom and so, we (my children and I) have been together daily for almost 18 years. It has always been a beautiful ride to grow and understand self while doing the same with my kids. I have watched as the fear-filled attachments that I held for them continuously became looked at and balanced. Because of this, our relationships have morphed into clarity, honesty, trust, and a new kind of love.
We “hold” the love that we have for our children because we believe that if we do, then they will be safe. It means that they have a better chance for survival if we protect them from harm and show them how to properly fear. We do this mainly to support and validate what we were taught to fear.
Now, become a mom or a dad who is a Divine Human Creator. Become someone who walks the path of the newly blended human, who has expanded beyond the human consciousnesses’ beliefs in search of spiritual freedom.
Throughout history, our path has been about enlightenment in one area or the other since we’ve existed, and now the human consciousness has expanded to meet the Divine Consciousness. This means that an energetic “calling” went out through the universe that it was time to begin this Divine transition on earth.
We’ve all heard it to some degree, and so the extremely rapid changes happening upon earth are actually there because they need to be. It’s time. And as it is time for us to embark upon the journey to enlightenment, it is also time for our children to do the same.
It is merely my perspective that it may be more difficult and challenging to let go of the holdings for children, but yet it feels true. Many other energetic holdings have not been as challenging to release, and most of them have been fun.
To “step away” from the emotion of this subject, I had to first be the observer. I had to actually see the energy that I was holding. I had to see it and acknowledge it without any fears or judgments. What I saw was a cord that connected me with my children and we fed off of each other through this “cord”. (No new news there…)
I observed. Every time the situation changed, the energy would also alter itself. It would still, however, move in and out of me in response to the energy I was sharing with them. The reason it was moving in and out of me with emotions attached, though, was the belief that I held for motherhood and karmic pasts with my children. Energy would only come in and meet with an energetic response if I also held that same energy within myself.
The belief systems of separation, survival, and safety would show themselves over and over as structures that I saw I had for my children, which I held in me. These were structures that were mine since I was seeing them.
Normally, I would have some type of judgment towards certain energies, especially where fear was concerned. Fear for their safety seemed to be the one that I would feel the most.
It was imperative, then, that I be able to see these energies without judgment to see them clearly. I couldn’t be clouded with my own judgments. The “judgments” would be like dirt and smudges on the sunglasses I was looking through.
So if I were to hear myself say “no judgments”, then I would be saying absolutely NO JUDGMENTS, not even a trace. Not 97% judgment free, not 99% judgment free. There would be no judgments. This would be the only way to be the Witness and the only way to be the Divine “mom” Observer.
An important note here is that there have been different degrees of non-judgment, according to the level that I was capable of at the time. This was and is still perfect. The perception of non-judgment evolved and expanded as I did, in getting to 100% non-judgment. In other words, I was loving enough with myself to not judge myself when I felt myself judging. I wasn’t too hard on myself and that was my 100% at that time.
When it came to something that I thought was “really bad”, I would have trouble not feeling the judgment of it; that clearly being the structure coming in to show itself to become balanced. There were deeper judgments that I held within myself that were wanting to be seen and cleared.
Eventually, even the “really bad” things became simply “things”, and then strangely enough, no “really bad” things happened anymore. I saw that if I no longer “held” that part of the structure as a fear, that I also wouldn’t see it in my children. Interesting. My children would have clear energy going back to them, not my fears. They would be given clarity so that they could look at their own beliefs and structures.
And so I watched. No matter what occurred, I agreed to watch. I agreed to take a moment in time to step away from time and simply watch.
The Simplicity of Clarity
A funny thing happens when you just watch. Positive and negative energy patterns are no longer being taken in and given out. Energy is no longer being validated! Positive and negative energy require more of the same to exist, but when you’re “not involved” and just watching without judgments, clarity arises and balance begins.
While your watching yourself and your children’s energy without emotional involvement, what happens to the safety of your children?
This is a beautiful thing. As you clear away your structures and beliefs that no longer serve you, so do they. They may not be aware of it, however, so this is a great item on the “job description” of the Divine parent. It is to explain the process fully and clearly to them also, so that they understand.
When you step into the Creator’s shoes, you understand that you indeed are the creator of your reality. You are the only creator of your reality and there is no other. Victim hood only happens when you believe someone else creates for you. In this, you take responsibility for the emotions that show up in you that you believe were caused by another person. What you create is a projection of self. It can’t be any other way, unless someone else is creating for you.
Thus, what you see is what you are. As you observe and see yourself without judgment, you also will automatically see and do the same in your environment. It is the same with your children. Your environment and your children will adapt. They will get correspondingly clearer as you do. What you project will be clearer, and your children will be clearer.
This happens by letting go of the fearful emotional attachments we have to the things we perceive as inside and outside of ourselves. The emotional attachments that we have come from the beliefs that we have carried up to now. They have been built upon to keep us coming back and understanding more about who we are, what we’ve created, and how to come Home to self and let the circle be completed.
The human beliefs that we carry have much to do with fear. Fear has been important and needs to be loved and welcomed home. All fear does is show up to show you your beliefs in separation, survival, suffering, safety, etc. These are obviously beliefs that NEED to be there if you believe you are only human.
But once you see that you are more than only human, new doorways open up. You really are a Divine Being who is waking up from a dream or meditation; you begin to balance out and clear old human belief systems to see what is beyond them.
And then, you accept everything that you see as a creation of yours. Yes! Even their emotions. If they affect you, then guess what? They’re yours also. You now begin to take responsibility for your creations that always begin within you. Everything that you see on the outside, including your children, is a direct reflection of you and your beliefs.
You will see your beliefs getting validated over and over, especially with your children. Our offspring are the most closely related beings to have as a mirror to us.
So just as you do with yourself, you do with your children because they are a very close extension of you. You first see your creations, understand that they are yours, have no judgments on them, and then accept them back Home again to their Creator. This means everything that your children do. Without judgments, observe and accept them.
This includes the things that you would normally have judgment upon with them. You understand that their actions are a direct reflection of what they hold inside. What they hold inside is a direct reflection of what you hold inside.
Accept this simple understanding and then accept all that shows itself to you. Look at your children and their actions and see them as reflections of you. Observe how you feel when your fears or angers show themselves and you BELIEVE that it is their fault that you feel “bad”. It is yours to bring in and balance within you.
When you see that you are the Creator, you take complete responsibility for HOW YOU FEEL. You actually clear and neutralize yourself, which clears and neutralizes those around you.
When fears show up around your children becoming harmed in some way, see that they are YOUR FEARS, and usually not consciously theirs. Those fears are to be embodied and accepted as YOURS because you are the one feeling them. From there, the fears can be loved and released. This consequently gives your children’s fears no place to be validated. It has them looking at themselves for their own clarity.
Once they become clear and balanced with a fear that they hold, they will no longer bring that particular fear in to them to be seen and experienced. They won’t have to. The karma will be released. In their clarity, they will be able to walk the path as their own Creator, and expand into the new reality as Divine Humans in their own right.
“No harm can come to any who are clear because in clarity, harm does not exist.”
Much Love and Many Blessings,
Ornesha
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Ornesha De Paoli,
Author, Clairvoyant/Audiovoyant
Co-Founder of the O.A.R. Method
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Author
Clairvoyant/Audiovoyant
Co-Founder of the O.A.R. Method
Reiki Master
Energy Balancer
Ascension Coach
Conflict Resolution Intermediary
Nuclear Weapons Safety Procedures Auditor
Every moment for the past twenty years has been a spiritual practice for me. The practice, however, has taken me into the world of the living, breathing human. Without ever (in this lifetime) having a group or affiliation to look to for answers, it became apparent a long time ago, that the answers would come from me.
My life has been artistically constructed to observe, without judgment, the dual nature of humanity’s existence, and in that, locate the steps to move beyond it. Thus, I have become a “poster child” of navigating through the web of the human belief systems.
In 2004, I consciously set out to unravel each system while at the same time, considering how rapidly a human body could endure the balancing and neutralizing of all beliefs and controls we’ve placed upon ourselves.
Working in conjunction with, and through the assistance of many Guides and Ascended Masters, it has become apparent that the opportunity of living in Ascension while living as a Human has come. The result comes in creating from a new heart center that is found in Divine Neutrality.
Divine Neutrality is where the concept of Ascension lies. It is in the complete understanding of Self without the safety net of fears, judgments, or doubts. It is where the human body no longer holds the limitations of the human condition and becomes free to blend with Divinity. It is where all pieces of self are brought back in, honored, and freed to form The One.
The O.A.R. Method has been developed to take us through these belief systems in a very systematic way in order to neutralize and balance them. In the neutralization of the human experience, the body will no longer hold or attach itself to being "just" human, and in the process, move beyond duality itself into enlightenment.
Ornesha resides in a quiet town north of Santa Fe, New Mexico where she devotes her time to being an example of love to her two children and a guide to those who seek.
For more information on personal assistance, workshops, or retreats please see our website:
Web Site:
http://www.unfoldintoone.
com
Phone: 505-455-3208
Email: ornesha1@yahoo.com
info@unfoldintoone.com
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