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Alternative Health & Healing:
Transformational Healing
through the Violet Flame!
Today: Divine Duality – Reality!
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by Eva Kettles |
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Dear Reader, Dear Writer!
Hello to everyone!
Life is simply "interesting". Every single part of our own Self and of every other living creature has underlying cycles. I had to come to realize this particular cycle of ‘yin and yang’ very realistically in the past 4 weeks.
About 6 weeks ago I felt so close to understanding and feeling the truth about God within me and within everyone else that it was a delight to be alive. It felt like I had figured it all out and I was so ‘high and full’ that my body and my mind were vibrating of truth. I was relaxed and at peace, I felt centered and loving. At that time it seemed impossible what divine duality had in store for me.
It all started when I realized that what I was meaning to communicate to others seemed to be not understood by the people around me. Just imagine: I thought I communicate “A” and “B” gets there and because “B” gets there – I receive the “reflection” of “B”. The reflection I got was not easy to take. I felt misunderstood, judged, wronged and in the beginning I was just feeling sad and a bit of anger. At first I didn’t take it too seriously. But one situation passed, another one came up and another one and slowly but surely I seriously felt something is going on here! It felt like everyone I was talking to was reflecting a part of me that I just didn’t think I had! And the way my surrounding was talking to me – I thought I didn’t deserve.
My first ideas on how to make it better were: Maybe people are pushing on me so that I learn to stick up for myself, to learn how to communicate it in a better way and so I tried that. I started to explain myself with the intention to ‘now really’ get the message across. But because I was seemingly already frustrated I choose to have a bit of a defense-energy in my expression as well and the reflection of this second attempt was even worse. People now did get the impression that I really wanted to fight about something and felt that I was trying to be “right”. In my interpretation, I wasn’t trying to be “right” - I just wanted still to get my original point across. It simply was a mess and I lost my balance and my knowingness. I felt very childish and frustrated and all that mattered to me at that point in time was how to fix the judgment from others about my being. I felt they didn’t understand me and they chose to make out of everything I said something else. It was as if the words were turned in my mouth and I had no way of stopping it. One week went by and another one and another one and universe played more and more opportunities into my life to help me see something about life in general.
As you all know – I give ‘good’ advice for living. I am a person that usually has everything pretty much "figured out" - whatever that may mean! - and that makes me feel some responsibility for being somewhat of an example for others. This was exactly - what I couldn’t stand for in this mess that I described above and I felt I had lost ground under my feet. I felt I didn’t deserve having clients – having no advice for myself at that point in time - and I even felt “fake” by seeing now the other side of the truth about myself. I was falling from high above onto the hard ground of the earth and hit my head. And I didn’t understand how I got there at all.
The "higher" we are - the deeper we fall - this is so hard to understand, because we can't accept to fall out of the "knowingness" and suddenly know "nothing" anymore. Life teaches us to re-learn and re-member everything every day over and over again. We absolutely can forget things that seemed one day so logical.
I judged myself so harshly – I was fighting my own demons and I wanted to be the ‘other’ Eva again, that was so “together” – at least it had seemed like this even to me - while that phase lasted. I communicated with my guidance but I didn’t get any hint of a trauma that I had to release in order to turn this phase around. They, "my guidance", simply let me sit in my own dilemma and I had to stick it out in the very human way. I don’t know how to describe that any other way, but I am so used to seeing everything slightly from above or beyond that it is really difficult for me to not be able to see behind something that happens immediately. It took quite some time in my eyes. But finally I did get to see behind this creation.
The work I am doing gives me the opportunity to live within the truth for around 4-6 hours a day. And every client that comes is divinely matched by God. My type gets to say things to the clients that we need to hear ourselves. By affirming what we need to hear we practice faith and we strengthen the faith muscle. When I decided to cut the flow of clients I cut myself off from the opportunity to receive the truth also for my own life circumstances by telling it to the client. This hasn’t been the first time this has happened but it was definitely one of the strongest disappointments that has appeared about my own imperfection.
Today I am thankful for what I went through because I realized that both phases belong in our being. The yin and the yang are one within God, within our Self. I was trying to only express the one side of the medal (coin) and God taught me a lesson. Only who can accept within himself the both sides can accept them also in others! I had to share my weakness in order to transform my separateness. My Guidance finally gave me the 'green light' and I found what was blocking me and I could release it. If you are curious - it was my need to "always be perfect or perceived as perfect" and the need to "always have the answer immediatly". I feel much better and I appreciate every client even more for giving me the opportunity to live in God for the most part of my day. Without practice, without dedication or initiative to practice it also alone we can and do drift away from the truth and we get lost in the turmoil of life. I had to experience it once again to keep myself awake and grateful for the days I am not feeling ‘off’. That is also the reason why God gives us opportunities one after another to stay “real” and “aware” and appreciate every minute.
The moment I released my "block" - literally the phone rang and I had my first client to practice again. I actually shared my situation with her and by allowing myself to be vulnerable I gave her permission to be that too. She thought she wasn't ready to share her "bad" side with me, but when I did - she could. We all are a team with our partners, loved-ones or just our friends and fellow travellers. We so often resent "their stuff" as being "their stuff" - and we don't want to deal with it, but to tell you the truth - it is nobody's stuff alone. "Your stuff" is "my stuff" and "my stuff" is "your stuff". The earlier we realize that we need to integrate "our stuff" into all of us, the faster we become "unified" again with each other in oneness. So, don't separate yourself any longer. Accept any difficulty as one of your difficulties and love the vulnerabilities as much as the strengths.
By accepting what others were thinking, by knowing that my intentions were good and by knowing that God is everywhere in every moment – even if it didn’t feel like it in this case at all – I simply started to relax and learned to accept the preconception of others about what I had meant to say.
We all have our own idea of what we hear or see. We interpret everything and we hear not only the words - we conceive a lot more than that. Our hearing is also influenced by our own experiences and opinions about whatever we are dealing with and we simply are not open to exactly hear what somebody says. A good way of making sure that we are listening to someone is to repeat in our own words what we were hearing. This gives the conversation the touch of “presence and focus” that we are all looking for.
I will be evermore conscious to practice this myself so that I do not let my hurt feelings get in the way and stop the volcanic eruption before it happens. We all have this Volcano within us “at sleep” and it is sometimes only waiting for a chance to spill the lava and after we have erupted we do feel even worse, because the mess is sometimes too big to be repaired. It is never too big though, because the more we feel that we all have the both sides within us, the more we can allow our friends and loved ones to practice Self love by integrating the dark side as well. And we can create this training field for them and ourselves with loving eyes and ears.
I thank you all for allowing me to share my dark side with you.
Many blessings, Eva
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Eva Kettles,
Spiritual Channel & Healer
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Eva Kettles is a spiritual channel, and guide who offers a sensitive, confidential, non-intrusive, results-oriented approach of clearing the pathway to becoming your True Self….consciously uncovering your Divine Essence.
Mrs. Kettles acts as a “loving detective” to give you clear guidance to your life questions. Working with the healing energy of the Violet Flame, Eva will transform your blocks in all the dimensions that make up your entire being so you can live according to your divine plan and purpose. Release deep seated fears, thought patterns and beliefs that keep you from expressing your authentic self.
Through a process of forgiveness and with the loving presence and help of our spirit guides, Eva enables healing to take place in mind, body, heart and soul. Eva offers individual guidance, fertility counseling, premarital guidance, couples coaching, space clearing and prayer/blessings.
Eva was born and raised in Germany. After finishing business school in Switzerland she discovered her ‘real’ passion for the eternal questions of Life that everybody has, but to which few people discover the answers.
To that end, she decided to become a holistic practitioner. During this education she got a wide background in all available alternative therapy disciplines.
Towards the end of her studies she decided to specialize in Bio-photonic Light Therapy (by Darbic, Dr. Acquillera, France), Frequency/Electrotherapy (Megawave 150), Color puncture, Regenaplex Cellular Therapy (Switzerland), Karma work, Hypnosis and Forgiveness work and opened her own practice first in Munich, than another one in Lucerne, Switzerland. Later, she established a healthy practice in New York City before moving to Ojai, California in March of 2004.
Eva was the protégé of Dr. Gutow in Germany. . He dedicated his whole life to finding out the reasons behind all illnesses. He took into account food, drinks, toxic surroundings or materials, homeopathic remedies in too high frequencies, astral positions, divine paths, karmic constellations, spells, entities and energies that block our good to come forth.
Dr. Gutow could access the highest self or spiritual guidance of each person and discovered that Eva had the ability to do the same work that he was doing. Using the analytical test that was developed by Dr. Gutow, Eva could immediately find out which therapy would work for which client. She explains: “It is like a key and a lock. We have to find the right key to unlock our good. Some keys work, some don’t!”
Having been blessed with many teachers, including Nadeen Shatyam , she learned that once you trust your inner voice you become connected to the universal truth and you do not need to look outside of yourself.
Everything is within us when we finally learn to believe it. Her goal is to help you to find and establish that trust in yourself. Having walked the path to self return, she knows how to guide others.
Phone:(805) 646-9399
www.uncoveryour
essence.com
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