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Alternative Health & Healing:
Transformational Healing
through the Violet Flame!
Today: You are just the way you are meant to be!
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by Eva Kettles |
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Dear Reader, Dear Writer!
Hello to everyone!
Life – it is what it is!
This sentence continually makes the most sense. Everything we experience is based on our interpretations. We give our own meaning into everything - and this is what makes it “our story”- we make our life what we think it is!
So we give meaning into our own Self, describe our Self, have expectations of our Self, push our Self and we set our Self up for disappointment when we don’t achieve or experience things the way we thought we would. We do the same thing also with the world around us.
Eric Hoffer: The capacity for getting along with our neighbor depends to a large extent on the capacity for getting along with ourselves. The self-respecting individual will try to be as tolerant of his neighbor's shortcomings as he is of his own.
This quote explains in a different way the saying: "only the one who loves himself is able to love others.” We all know that it is important to love ourselves - however we have a hard time doing so. What hinders us?
We have the idea of " having to be perfect” in order to love ourself or to earn the love of others. But the word “perfect” can be interpreted in a million ways. And “being perfect” can look in each situation a bit different. What is “perfect” in one moment is absolutely “imperfect” in another. It is all about” bringing the duality together as one” within ourselves. If we manage to make peace with the two sides of the coin within ourselves we are then able to do that with others as well and project this new found peace outwardly.
Stop the war within yourself, beating yourself up for all kinds of reasons. Start loving yourself the way you are, just the way you are. Here is a simple process to help you to become aware of your self worth. Please ask your Self: “what do I like about myself?” and write at least 10 -20 reasons onto a paper. If you don’t know so many points, ask your friends and family members to help you with things they like about you. You will be astonished! Please wake up and look into your own eyes and give yourself the treatment you deserve. We all are wonderful, colorful, beautiful, and different expressions of nature, divine Spirit or Source - whatever we perceive our higher power to be. God has meant for us to be exactly the way we are. Otherwise, God wouldn’t be able to experience his own essence through us - in these multicolored, unique and amazing ways. God is in me and you - as me and you. This God energy within does not judge me or you in any way. God/Spirit is just having fun with me and you - as me and you. It is us alone who always look for ways to change due to our self judging attitudes. If God wanted us any different – he would have created us to be different.
When we start choosing mantras about loving ourselves –we recognize, how everything in our lives changes all by itself. Loving our Self means loving God. We can’t love God without loving our Self first. And we can’t love our neighbor without loving our Self and God first. For our awareness - all that we express and all that we have and all that we do - is because of God. There is no other reason.
I invite us all to practice a little ritual with our Self daily:” Lets stand in front of a mirror and we look into our own eyes and we let our self know how much we care about ourselves. We tell our self all the reasons why we like our Self, love our Self and believe in our Self. We give our self all the appreciation and the respect that we try to find through others.
Nobody will ever be able to give us enough confirmation, enough appreciation, enough respect or whatever it is, that we seem to need, in order to love ourselves. In order to be convinced, we need to know the truth and believe the truth - and the only way we can make sure that we can believe in our self is - to give what we need to our Self! And since nobody gets the job done for us - we need to do it ourselves. When we start the work now, we can finally stop running after a phantom where we are trying to convince others about our greatness just in order to feel the inner satisfaction by fishing for their compliments.
When we know, feel and believe in our Self – the people around us will reflect instinctively what they see in us to us. We are all connected and others will feel what we feel about ourselves. In the way we are able to accept our Self we are also able to see the value and the love in and of others. Everything we do is simply a projection. We don’t have anything but our own perspective on things and so we use our past experiences as” knowledge”, which guides us to a personal understanding of our feelings and interpretations. In order to lift ourselves up to get a bigger picture we are responsible to experience our own shadow side.
If we accept the duality within we learn to accept the shadow also in others. Loving our weaknesses and seeing God in them as well, gives us the freedom to love God even more. God is everywhere - there is no place, where God is not. If God can love the things that are, why can’t we?
We can change the way we think about our self any time. Even if we think we can’t change our habits quite yet, we can change the way we think and feel about the habits. And soon - who knows – the habits may suddenly feel loved as well and simply fall away. The invisible transformation begins when our judgments turn into acceptance and the old patterns suddenly feel our embracing attitude. It might be why these habits were attached to us in the first place – to find love or to be loved!
Have you gotten what you are here for yet? If you want to be different – you have the best chance to transform into a new YOU if you simply accept what is – now, the way it appears to be - now.
When we give our Self the love that we deserve including all our behaviors – we have the chance to fully enjoy the time that is given to us – by simply accepting whom we are expressing, what we are expressing and where we are expressing it.
When we stop trying, we suddenly realize that it all happens by itself – effortlessly. Our true Self who is always there - like a burning log from within – takes care of it all. Even when we think we are not giving, not caring enough, not good enough – this burning log from within is always present and active - if we think about it or not.
We believe only if we think straight, only if we move right, only if we act correctly we can reach the goal. Let go of the “How” and let God within decide about the journey towards our goals. By trying to get everything in a straight line we actually move it out of harmony because it was already straight before we started thinking, moving and acting.
We have the power, we are the power and what we experience within the power is what we truly need to experience. Our human mind reacts threatened to the simple changes that are brought to us by the higher power in order to expand. Our mind tries to be prepared for the changes – but since this is not possible we use control and we shut down and stop the flow. We can only understand and recognize as much as our conscious mind can hold in a given moment. Our inner growth helps our consciousness to expand and to stretch infinitely – it happens, if we want it to or not. We might as well enjoy it and surrender to our own life force!
Life can be so easy, but we seem to want to make it difficult. We don’t want to accept the flow of life and the natural flow of our power. In order to feel safe we try to control the power with the result that it controls us.
The only way out of this, is to accept what is - as is and feel the truth in every emotion with gratefulness and honesty. Stopping ourselves from stopping ourselves to feel what we don’t want to feel which means = allowing ourselves to feel whatever we feel when we feel it - without thinking, that we are supposed to feel something else instead.
If we are everything, then we need to become so expanded in our awareness that we are able to feel everything to be able to become one with God in all ways. We cannot judge our individual journeys any longer. Everyone needs to do what they do and follow their own path. Many of us hope that by working on our own growth we are supposed to feel that our path gets easier and that the pain goes away. By doing this we are still trying to change what is. We are still resistant to what is. We want to make it something different. What does that mean? Could it mean that we are afraid? Okay then let’s feel afraid. Nothing is wrong with feeling fear! Let’s feel into the fear with love.
Accepting the fear and loving the fear makes the fear feel loved and the emotion can move into a higher frequency. The same is true for pain. We can feel the pain with all honesty, knowing that we won’t die from it. Let’s love the pain and embrace the pain just as much as we love the joy. When we stop trying to deny our fears, pains, or traumas only then will the pain, experiences, thoughts, feelings, or fears be transformed into inner peace, joy, happiness and love. We must honor the scary feelings and past memories. By loving ourselves and accepting every part of our Self in every moment – change happens effortlessly. We become stronger when we are able to feel more instead of less.
Our journey towards enlightenment may look different than we always hoped or thought it would. . Maybe we really become stronger in being able to feel more pain instead of less? We hope, if we work through our traumas we don’t invite as much trauma anymore, but maybe we only get ready to look differently at the experience that we called trauma?
Our physical, spiritual and emotional bodies become ready to be what they are in whatever conditions they are in. Pain, hurt, trauma, or fear; none of these emotions or feelings can change us from being who we are.
This is the power of being present and true to ourselves! When we are willing to feel what is real and not attempt to make our feelings different we are on the right track. When we detach from judging our feelings as good or bad, then we can just let life be what it is at this moment and not try anymore to make it something else.
Love,
Eva
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Eva Kettles,
Spiritual Channel & Healer
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Eva Kettles is a spiritual channel, and guide who offers a sensitive, confidential, non-intrusive, results-oriented approach of clearing the pathway to becoming your True Self….consciously uncovering your Divine Essence.
Mrs. Kettles acts as a “loving detective” to give you clear guidance to your life questions. Working with the healing energy of the Violet Flame, Eva will transform your blocks in all the dimensions that make up your entire being so you can live according to your divine plan and purpose. Release deep seated fears, thought patterns and beliefs that keep you from expressing your authentic self.
Through a process of forgiveness and with the loving presence and help of our spirit guides, Eva enables healing to take place in mind, body, heart and soul. Eva offers individual guidance, fertility counseling, premarital guidance, couples coaching, space clearing and prayer/blessings.
Eva was born and raised in Germany. After finishing business school in Switzerland she discovered her ‘real’ passion for the eternal questions of Life that everybody has, but to which few people discover the answers.
To that end, she decided to become a holistic practitioner. During this education she got a wide background in all available alternative therapy disciplines.
Towards the end of her studies she decided to specialize in Bio-photonic Light Therapy (by Darbic, Dr. Acquillera, France), Frequency/Electrotherapy (Megawave 150), Color puncture, Regenaplex Cellular Therapy (Switzerland), Karma work, Hypnosis and Forgiveness work and opened her own practice first in Munich, than another one in Lucerne, Switzerland. Later, she established a healthy practice in New York City before moving to Ojai, California in March of 2004.
Eva was the protégé of Dr. Gutow in Germany. . He dedicated his whole life to finding out the reasons behind all illnesses. He took into account food, drinks, toxic surroundings or materials, homeopathic remedies in too high frequencies, astral positions, divine paths, karmic constellations, spells, entities and energies that block our good to come forth.
Dr. Gutow could access the highest self or spiritual guidance of each person and discovered that Eva had the ability to do the same work that he was doing. Using the analytical test that was developed by Dr. Gutow, Eva could immediately find out which therapy would work for which client. She explains: “It is like a key and a lock. We have to find the right key to unlock our good. Some keys work, some don’t!”
Having been blessed with many teachers, including Nadeen Shatyam , she learned that once you trust your inner voice you become connected to the universal truth and you do not need to look outside of yourself.
Everything is within us when we finally learn to believe it. Her goal is to help you to find and establish that trust in yourself. Having walked the path to self return, she knows how to guide others.
Phone:(805) 646-9399
www.uncoveryour
essence.com
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