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Angels, Guides, &
Loving Spirits: Love Letters
It Only Takes a Moment
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Capabilities…Yes, but where could warp drive take us, except away from here.
-Anji
Star Trek Insurrection
Why are we in such a hurry when it comes to Love? Why would we, by choice or design, take ourselves out of any moment of Love? Have you ever had the experience of a perfect moment, when time seemed to stand still? Looking into someone’s eyes? Holding on to a word,…a touch,…a kiss, when everything exists in one perfect moment.
Most of us rush through our lives, in such a hurry we miss the now, in all of its beauty and power. Never is that more evident than in Love. Love creates anxiety in most of us. From the moment we meet someone we want to know what the outcome of the relationship is going to be; sex?, boyfriend/girlfriend?, living together?, married?, dumped?, broken hearted?, just like all the rest?, forever or just a day?. The same is true for couples: How will I feel tomorrow? Are we going to end up divorced? Will I be cheated on? Will we really grow old together? Will I be abandoned?
Our history, and our anxiety have us drive the moment into the future to answer our ultimate questions; Am I Lovable?, Will they Love me?, Will I Love them?, Will it be forever?, Will I be trapped?, Will they make me happy? (I will be revisiting these questions later.) We drive our future to find the answers, to make sure we are safe and that we will not be hurt. Many of us look to our relationships to create some form of safety for ourselves. Relationships are not there to provide us with safety, but rather the lessons or experiences that are there to help us learn how to provide safety for ourselves. Our need to feel safe robs us of so many moments of beauty and life. There are so many moments in a relationship that are both wonderful and painful, all that serve the development and strength of the relationship. The more life experiences we share as a couple, the stronger the relationship becomes. What moments are you uncomfortable with? What moments do you push away that make you feel you need to leave the moment?
You can never replay a moment or have it back. All you have is now. Most people search or are in a relationship because they are searching for a certain feeling or life. Yet we are in one way or another dissatisfied by what we end up with. In part, I believe because we have missed moments where we had actually received what it was we where looking to find. We spent those moments somewhere in the past or future. So even though we had received what we had wanted, we missed it. How many moments are you missing right now? How often are you receiving what you desire from someone, but are failing to experience it? There for experiencing its absence?
Living in the moment with Love:
• All the Questions keeping you out of Moments of Love Answered!
I had stated a list of questions earlier on in this article that I said I would revisit, so here we go! I will tackle them one at a time:
1. Am I Lovable? Yes! Everything about you is loveable. No matter what you perceive as your shortcomings, there is nothing unlovable about you!
2. Will I Love them? Yes. If you allow Love in, let go of expectations, your history and choose to. You can Love them. Love is a choice.
3. Will they Love me? Maybe. It is their choice. If they do not, believe it or not…It has nothing to with you or your Lovability. It has to do with their trip. Honestly, it is nothing personal, and let’s be real… IT IS THEIR LOSS! What fool turns down an opportunity to let Love in!
4. Will it be forever? Yes. Love never really dies. Amongst other places that Love lives in, it is always in our hearts and memories.
5. Will I feel trapped? Maybe. Good news! The only one that can trap you is yourself. Set yourself free. You do not have to leave the relationship in order to feel free, just surrender to Love.
6. Will they make me happy? Maybe, maybe not. FYI, It is not their job to make you happy. You are ultimately responsible for your own happiness. You are really the only one that can make yourself happy.
• Slow Down
Take a deep breath. Become aware of your surroundings. Notice everything you can; sights, sounds, smells, tastes. Allow yourself, without judgment to feel the moment. See all the beauty and Love that exists.
If someone is sharing the moment with you, take your time, talking, eating or whatever it is you are doing together. Allow yourself to listen and experience your feelings without judgment in the moment.
• No Time Travel Please
Stay out of the past and away from the future. If you are making any kind of judgment at all, you are not in the moment. You are either in the past or the future, and most likely experiencing some form of anxiety. You form judgments out of the experiences that you have had in the past, your history. You are performing a little “am I safe” compare and contrast scan. You are sizing up the situation, conversation, and behavior to see if it is “whatever happened last time”. You are out of the moment. You are missing the moment.
If you are judging you may be in the future. If you are in the future, you are weighing and measuring what is happening to see how it may or may not fit into the picture you have of that future. What definition is the relationship taking on, and if it is meeting your expectations of how you view you life. You are not in the moment. You are missing the moment, and all the opportunities and Love it brings.
• Understand the Rules of Love
There are no guarantees or safety in Love or life. Cut yourself a break and stop working so hard, worrying and trying to develop a strategy to insure that non existent safety. Just allow yourself to enjoy life and all the moments you are given!
The last beautiful piece of this I would like to share with you is that if you are uncomfortable, more than not you are most likely experiencing real INTIMACY! Yea you! What a gift! Don’t run over it or away from it. Savor it. Make it a PERFECT MOMENT of LOVE! My wish for you is that you have many!
©2008 Erika Morrell
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My Anniversary Gift to You
Love!
You are Cordially Invited To E-Mail me your Questions about your relationship, lack of one or how to receive the love you desire!
In celebration of my 18th Anniversary
Xoxo
Erika
Your Soul Mate Medium™
Soulmatemedium@aol.com
P.S. Your Question will NOT be printed. Your answer will be directly e-mailed to you. |
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Erika Morrell
Soul Intuitive
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Erika Morrell, Soul Mate Medium™ has her heritage to thank for her many gifts.
The Great Granddaughter of Carmella Colchie of Italy known for her ability to prevent and heal Malocchio ( known as the evil eye) and the Currie family known in the Highlands of Scotland as the possessors of the “Currie Coin”. When drinking the water that had been mixed with this coin it had the ability to heal all disease.
With the psychic ability to read minds, predict future events, have prophetic dreams, and speak to Angels; Erika was showing evidence of that deeply spiritual heritage at the ripe old age of three.
Dedicating most of her life to learning as many modalities and traditions of healing as she could, Erika started her very successful privet healing practice in her home town of New York City in 1991.
Working with everyone from students to celebrities to members of the Royal Family, she quickly became one of the most sought after healers in the industry. Erika was known for her eclectic blend of techniques, down to earth approaches and practical applications of complex spiritual principles.
Erika’s special talent was supporting people in finding love, and not just love, but their true Soul Mates. She started to observe an alarming trend; client after client was on the verge of missing their Soul Mate, not by means of a break-up, but by the lack of recognition that their Soul Mate was staring them RIGHT IN THE FACE and they failed to recognize them.
Erika supports people in transcending desire, fantasy and expectation to attain themselves and a true Soul Mate love. She has supported 38 people in finding wedded bliss and countless others in finding the relationship of their hearts, earning her the title Soul Mate Medium™ Enlightener of Love.™
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