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Alternative Health & Healing:
Transformational Healing
through the Violet Flame!
Today’s Subject:
Bring in the love you deserve!
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by Eva Kettles |
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You can not see the light within someone else before you can see it within yourself first. Once you have seen your own light, you will see it within everyone around you without any exception. It won’t matter if they recognize it within themselves or not. You know it is there. You are connecting with that light that you see when you address others.
People who are scared of love are still reaching out for it. When love hits their door, they have trouble opening it in order to let love in. They want love in perfect size and form, but love usually doesn’t come like this. True love comes from the essence and doesn’t have much to do with external appearances. Love is concrete and spontaneous not ideal or abstract. People who can’t look behind appearances won’t recognize the loved one even when he or she stands in front of them.
People who are afraid of love are usually ambivalent in their giving and taking. When you are far from them they feel safe and wish you were there. But when you are getting closer, they suddenly get afraid and ask you for some distance or even to leave. This emotional seek and hide game helps them to actually keep relationships moving but at the same time to not let closeness and intimacy occur.
If you have been living in a relationship like this you need to look at the possibility if for instance also you have a fear of love. Maybe you are one of the ones that think that the only way to keep a relationship is to actually accept the unkind and ignorant attitude of your partner. Only if you say “it’s enough”, you can break out of this dilemma. You need to get distance and look at the situation in order to see the game.
People who always have to find something wrong in others are insecure and not able to trust their emotions. They can’t get involved with you because they don’t let themselves get involved with themselves first. Often they don’t have a strong inner guidance which makes them not sure about what is right for them. They fall from one extreme to the next and need lot’s of approval from outside. If you are looking for stability and commitment, why should you be with someone who changes their mind daily??
It is not your job to judge this person nor to analyze or to change them. Accept them for who they are right now. Send them love. But you don’t have to live with them. Stop to deny yourself! You are worthy to be loved and don’t have to take any kind of abuse. Only if you think you won’t find this kind of love that accepts you for who you are you will accept a love that is not worthy of you and that comes with conditions.
Only if you are open to play a victim role, you will attract an aggressor. If you have not enough self confidence you will attract a person that mirrors your insecurities. What others do to you is only the external mirror of that which you do to yourself. The message is clear and strong: Stop to bring yourself down!
It makes no sense to accuse the other person. Be responsible for your choice that you have given permission to the other person to treat you the way they treat you. Know that you have a choice. If you love yourself enough and if you take care of yourself you will attract a partner that will respect you for the amount you respect yourself. Don’t accept less than you are worth and you have earned and you won’t have any unworthy relationships anymore.
If you make a mistake take responsibility for it. Listen to the message that each aggressor has for you. Respect yourself!
Which mistake is it if you stay in a relationship that doesn’t respect you? No other person can be responsible for what you live. It is all a direct result of your thoughts and actions.
If you are fed up with Ego games, watch out when a new partner enters your life. Is he or she kind and able to forgive and compassionate or is he or she critical and controlling? If you are not able to say no to a partner that doesn’t accept you for who you are you won’t attract one that loves you just the way you are.
You bring into your life that which you let in!
Lot’s of love,
Eva
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Eva Kettles,
Spiritual Channel & Healer
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Eva Kettles is a spiritual channel, and guide who offers a sensitive, confidential, non-intrusive, results-oriented approach of clearing the pathway to becoming your True Self….consciously uncovering your Divine Essence.
Mrs. Kettles acts as a “loving detective” to give you clear guidance to your life questions. Working with the healing energy of the Violet Flame, Eva will transform your blocks in all the dimensions that make up your entire being so you can live according to your divine plan and purpose. Release deep seated fears, thought patterns and beliefs that keep you from expressing your authentic self.
Through a process of forgiveness and with the loving presence and help of our spirit guides, Eva enables healing to take place in mind, body, heart and soul. Eva offers individual guidance, fertility counseling, premarital guidance, couples coaching, space clearing and prayer/blessings.
Eva was born and raised in Germany. After finishing business school in Switzerland she discovered her ‘real’ passion for the eternal questions of Life that everybody has, but to which few people discover the answers.
To that end, she decided to become a holistic practitioner. During this education she got a wide background in all available alternative therapy disciplines.
Towards the end of her studies she decided to specialize in Bio-photonic Light Therapy (by Darbic, Dr. Acquillera, France), Frequency/Electrotherapy (Megawave 150), Color puncture, Regenaplex Cellular Therapy (Switzerland), Karma work, Hypnosis and Forgiveness work and opened her own practice first in Munich, than another one in Lucerne, Switzerland. Later, she established a healthy practice in New York City before moving to Ojai, California in March of 2004.
Eva was the protégé of Dr. Gutow in Germany. . He dedicated his whole life to finding out the reasons behind all illnesses. He took into account food, drinks, toxic surroundings or materials, homeopathic remedies in too high frequencies, astral positions, divine paths, karmic constellations, spells, entities and energies that block our good to come forth.
Dr. Gutow could access the highest self or spiritual guidance of each person and discovered that Eva had the ability to do the same work that he was doing. Using the analytical test that was developed by Dr. Gutow, Eva could immediately find out which therapy would work for which client. She explains: “It is like a key and a lock. We have to find the right key to unlock our good. Some keys work, some don’t!”
Having been blessed with many teachers, including Nadeen Shatyam , she learned that once you trust your inner voice you become connected to the universal truth and you do not need to look outside of yourself.
Everything is within us when we finally learn to believe it. Her goal is to help you to find and establish that trust in yourself. Having walked the path to self return, she knows how to guide others.
Phone:(805) 646-9399
www.uncoveryour
essence.com
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