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Breaking Free:
Finding A
Perfect Mate
By Anne Brewer
Among my single clients, the most frequently asked question is, "When will I find my perfect mate?" Without meaning to be disrespectful, I reply "When do you want it to be?" My intention in asking that question is to indicate that it is our personal responsibility to create a mate, just like we are personally responsible for creating all aspects of our existence, assuming we are operating as spiritually responsible human beings. Think about it this way - if we are asking someone else when an event is going to occur in our life, how much focus can we possibly be directing towards ensuring that the event comes to pass? Asking the question renders us impotent because we place the power at someone else's disposal.


When a client asks me to divine their perfect mate, I direct the creation of that event back to them. First of all, I ask them to listen carefully to the sound track they play in their head. Are they envisioning their perfect mate and their joyful times together? Or are they wondering who could possibly love them because they have gotten older or gained weight? The first step towards manifesting a perfect mate is to be ready, now, this very minute, for the perfect partner. Listen to your mind talk. Do you view yourself as desirable or undesirable? Do you tell yourself you'll meet someone today or that you need to first lose 10 pounds? Remember, you are interested in manifesting your perfect mate. Therefore, they will find you perfect, just the way you are. You don't have to change to be lovable. See yourself as lovable now!


Secondly, I advise my client that they must hold a firm conviction that their life partner exists. As easy as this sounds, most people are not completely convinced there is a perfect mate for them. The mass consciousness overtly feeds this lack of optimism by convincing single women over forty they are statistically more likely to be struck by lightening or mugged than receive a marriage proposal. Personally, we may feel too imperfect to attract someone , e.g., debt-ridden, single parent. In order to attract your life partner, you must wholeheartedly believe it is possible! When I teach my "Create-A-Mate" class, I "measure" how much each student believes their mate exists by using kinesiology, or muscle testing. When we resonate, the muscle is strong. When we do not resonate, the muscle is weak. All of my students strongly desire a mate. Yet they are less than 60% sure their mate exists. How can you beckon your partner if you only partially believe in them? It is important to resonate 100% with the belief your partner exists. In order to shift your subconscious belief system to complete alignment, conduct the following exercise:

· Gain the attention of your subconscious by interfering with one of the automatic body functions it manages, your breath. Slow your breathing by taking 6 deep inhales and exhales.


· Hold your hands in front of you, palms facing. Instruct your subconscious to collect and retain a surcharge of vital force between your palms.


· Create vital force by taking 6 breaths, inhaling to the count of 10, holding for the count of 10, and breathing out to the count of 10. Feel the vital force build between your palms.


· Instruct your subconscious to release the surcharge of vital force to your High Self. Tell your High Self to use the energy to complete the following request.


· (SAY 10 TIMES WITH CONVICTION:) "I align 100% with the notion my perfect mate exists."

· After you have stated the affirmation 10 times, close your eyes and envision the outline of an indistinguishable male/female figure surrounded in green light. Imagine he/she coming toward you. As the figure approaches, extend your hand and visualize the hand of your mate being extended to you as well. Place your other hand on your heart. Touch fingers as you connect energetically. Imagine the coursing of energy through your hands and into your heart. Maintain energetic contact for at least one minute. Release contact with your mate.


· (SAY:) "Although I am releasing your hand in my visualization, I maintain blended with you energetically. I hold that connection in my heart until we physically meet."

Thirdly, I tell my client that it is time to advertise. What good does it do to be ready for a perfect mate but not send that message to potential recipients? I have taught clients to employ a bubble technique shared by Madeleine Morris in her book, The Miracle of Mana Force. This technique has been highly successful in attracting a perfect mate.


· Generate the surcharge of vital force (see bullet points 1-4 above).

· Feel the emotion of love fill you. Overflow with love. Direct this love into a bubble of vital force that you have created. See the bubble change to orange, the color of manifestation.


· Take three more deep breaths. Hold your hands in front of you, palms facing the bubble. Mentally place yourself inside the bubble. Stay there for a moment or two so your vibrations become part of the bubble. Mentally step back into your own body.


· With palms facing the bubble, command forcefully aloud: "I command this bubble of love to go to (say name of loved one or envision outline of male/female body that you entitle your perfect mate). I command it to settle around him/her and fill him/her with my love. I command it to encourage him/her to love me in return, if it is in our highest and best good. I command this with my full soul power and ask my high self and spiritual counselors to support me in this venture. So be it. It is done."


Finally, please remember, your mate is perfect for you because he or she matches you. A perfect mate will reflect you. The more you raise your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being, the more you will like who you attract. Happy hunting!

Anne Brewer,
Healer,
Author and Teacher.
Anne Brewer is an international author and teacher. She has developed a process for reading the Akashic (soul) records and clearing unresolved issues from past and present soul experiences.


She is also known for her 12-strand DNA activation work as recorded in her book, The Power of Twelve. Her other books, Breaking Free to Health, Wealth, and Happiness and Crystal Broadcasting, outline some of the healing modalities she uses with her clients.


Contact her office at:
913-722-5498
for information on books, tapes, crystals, consultations, and seminars.



Visit her website at:

www.annebrewer.com
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