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Creating Bridges: The Spiritual & Philosophical :
The BUT Doctor
Healing America's Real Crack Problem One Person at a Time
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by Eddie Conner |
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Greetings and welcome to my column about really Big BUTS.
As a Soul Intuitive for twelve years I have noticed that there are three main reasons that someone consults a psychic; they want guidance regarding:
Money Love Career
I have also noticed an unfortunate pattern many of my clients have. They unconsciously contradict their heart felt desires for money, love or career with a negative belief that opposes their desire. Without even realizing it I've learned to call this contradicted behavior The Big BUT Syndrome™.
What is the Big BUT Syndrome™?
"It is having considerable desire with a contradicted belief to that desire, which, over time, creates an unpleasant quality of life."
An example of having a big BUT is when we say things like, "I want a relationship BUT most men are jerks." With money we talk about the lack of money in our lives instead of appreciating the money we have. For example "I need more money BUT don't know what to do to get it." Or, "I should look for a better paying job BUT the job market is so bad I'm afraid to leave the security of this position."
Who Ya Gonna Call? The BUT Doctor
As a result of helping people to recognize and neutralize their Big BUTS, many of my colleagues affectionately began calling me the BUT Doctor. At first it was scary, BUT I soon realized that being a BUT Doctor was a good thing.
Don't worry. There's not an industrial-sized box of rubber gloves, lubrication and ineffectual tissue to irrigate and attempt to wipe away your problems by force. Ouch! No, I like to think of myself as a doctor who helps you heal those big ole BUTS with an atmosphere of love, safety and trust - a doctor of the heart and soul who points out the true root of the ailment. Those roots are old limited, stagnate belief systems that have produced the dis-ease, The Big BUT.
Beliefs are powerful tools that we can use to promote our most positive desires. Likewise they can call forth our worst fears. Ernest Holmes, philosopher and tacher said that poverty is a denial of our good. When we choose to focus on negative beliefs, we deny ourselves goodness while encoding our minds and emotions deeper into poverty consciousness.
Good News:
I've learned that imagination trumps will power every time! Many of us have the will power of a thousand tribes. We work long hard hours; we struggle in love and pinch pennies to make ends meet. We relentlessly push forward, day after day trying to get ahead in life. This is a display of asserting our will power without employing high frequency imagination.
The only imagination used in most people's careers is their current belief about the current job. We imagine the worst case scenario. We believe that today will be as bad as yesterday. We imagine the same low pay, same relentless hours, same people and the same complacent reality regarding our work schedules.
Imagination isn't about asserting our physical will or about flexing our muscles. Pure imagination mixed with a passionate belief is our Soul's recipe for a happy life-a life where desires are fulfilled and miracles are
manifested.
How Do You Use Your Imagination?
The real work begins in our heads and our hearts. Hold a pure desire and add a pure belief that it is absolutely possible to attain your desire in a manner that spotlights your highest potential. This essence fills our mental, emotional, physical and spiritual selves with a soul electricity that is freedom.
Where Does the Big BUT Come From?
I believe people have two moods of emotional operation. These moods are either a Hi-Frequency or a Low Frequency.
Hi-Frequency = Prosperity consciousness
Feeling good
Soul electricity expressing itself through our physical self
Low Frequency = Poverty consciousness
Feeling bad - a denial of good
Physical self focused on negative things
As you can imagine, the Big BUT thrives, lies and multiplies in our low frequency patterns of thought. While seeing life through a poverty lens, we feel negative emotion, thus denying our birthright of goodness.
The opposite holds true when observing life through the lens of prosperity and our soul's electricity. BUTS don't live or thrive in the land of hi-frequency. They cannot exist there!
Does God have a Big BUT? How about the Universe? Can you conceive that our Soul, Higher Self, Christ Self, Buddha or other Master Teachers ever operated off the contradicted fuel of the Big BUT? Of course not! The Creator is pure, high frequency, non-contradicted, unconditional, loving energy that radiates and vibrates to us and through us. My favorite spiritual teacher Abraham-Hicks calls this feeling being tuned in, tapped in and turned on to the pure positive energy that creates worlds.
I've noticed that almost everyone past thirteen years of age has a tendency to fall into the hold of low frequency beliefs and negative imagination. By our teenage years we begin successfully mimicking the adult role models and authority figures around us. We begin to believe almost everything we've heard about life being a school of hard knocks. Remember? "Money doesn't grow on trees." "You have to work hard to earn money." "Love hurts, you better be careful." Pessimism seems rampant, and kids take in all of that self-defeating talk like a sponge to water.
Actually adults have far bigger BUTS than children or teens. Why? Because the longer we live observing low frequency people, places, circumstances and situations, the more we contradict our desires with negative beliefs. Voila! The Big BUT is born!
It is rare to find an adult in his or her thirty's who is radiating hi-frequency emotion or pure bliss about money, love or career. The closer we get to thirty-something, the more we relinquish our heart felt desires and pure beliefs of having a life of financial freedom, a passionate life purpose or a soul mate partnership.
The older we get the more we're pulled away from our soul's perspective and away from the belief that we can have it all. As adults we worry about lack of money, the pain of love, or maintaining job security in a career that we loath. Worry starts to feel like the right thing to do, the responsible thing to do. After years of habitually focusing on the low frequency aspects of life we have begun to BELIEVE that what we have been observing will now become our lot in life. In short we give up.
We forget to believe, daydream, fantasize and imagine hi-frequency thoughts and feelings that resonate with our soul's truth. We don't allow time to talk with close friends about our dreams and aspirations. We are not taking the time to write, doodle, sketch, or draw our desires on paper. We have forgotten a pure truth that children know; that taking our hi-frequency soul electricity from the invisible world and putting it onto paper or into a passionate action does make our imagination world a believable physical experience.
The Star Factor:
Living in Tinsel town I've had the pleasure of working with celebrities from all walks of life. It is fascinating to observe this microscopic group of privileged people bringing their desires into physical reality while thousands of people come to Hollywood every month to pursue their dreams and never make it.
The difference between established celebrities and the wannabes is the size of their BUTS. The smaller or more nonexistent their BUTS, the faster they attract success. The bigger the BUT the less likely they are to make it.
My favorite people are dreamers who make their desires a physical reality. These people take their hi-frequency imaginations and choose to believe in the essence of their visualizations. They hold the magic of invisible reality in their mind, heart and soul. Applying this practice has proven to be the magnetic force that pulls their desires to them. These high frequency beings emit an energy that is contagious! Have you ever been around someone so happy that some of that good feeling rubbed off on you? Aren't those the people you enjoy and feel lifted by? They energize you instead of leaving you feeling drained.
When I was younger, I asked my spirit guides why so many people were fascinated with the rich and famous. The answer, people study the rich and famous because they want to know how they created their riches, because they, too, want to attain a similar lifestyle. Many healthy, wealthy people seem to have a lot more freedom, solace, spontaneity, comfort, power, respect, security and ease. Who wouldn't want those things?
The Effort:
Don't get me wrong. I know there is work involved in achieving ones desired dreams. It is not just about wishful thinking. I also know the sooner we make a conscious decision to keep score of the good things in life the sooner we will live the good life. We don't have to wait for the fame or riches to land in our lap before we can have the freedom, comfort and security the privilege enjoy.
Something as simple as talking about the joys of freedom without interjecting BUT vocabulary will bring the joyous freedom without the Big BUT'S contradicted consequences. Daydreaming about love instead of the love BUTS will bring intimacy without the hurt, it will bring money without the poverty consciousness and so much more.
Exercise:
Practice the daily art of bridging your old BUT Beliefs with a high frequency tool called the AND Avalanche. The word AND promotes your desires into becoming a believable reality while the word BUT contradicts or erases your desires, putting the emphasis on the belief that you can't have what you want.
For the next few days play the AND Avalanche Fame Game. It's called the Fame Game because so many of us desire the essence we believe fame or wealth will bring us when we have it. This game helps us possess the quality we believe fame will bring to us so the vibratory essence of fame can beat a path to our door. Here's how the game works.
When we say things like, "I really do want a relationship BUT most men are jerks."
Stop, and in that moment recognize the BUT and reframe this low frequency pattern with the word AND. For example:
"I really do want a relationship
AND I want it to be a lovely win-win partnership
AND I'd like for him to have a great sense of humor
AND I want him to love cooking
AND enjoy the art of scrubbing the toilet."
Can you feel the higher frequency the AND Avalanche facilitates? Have fun playing the AND Avalanche Fame Game. AND let me know how you like it.
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Eddie Conner,
Author & Soul Intuitive
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Eddie Conner has achieved international acclaim as a Soul Intuitive, humorist, speaker and the author of The Big BUT Syndrome™.
To date Eddie has shared his metaphysical teachings on thousands of radio stations in the U.S. and is currently creating a show for national television syndication. Eddie is a contributing writer for The Power Agent and The Caster Magazines in Los Angeles.
He's the founder of the Spirit Light Expo ~ Merging Movies, Magic & Metaphysics™ and conducts tours to Peru and the Far East. Eddie and his teeny weenie BUT live in Los Angeles, California.
Soul Awareness with Eddie Conner (818) 734-9392
www.EddieConner.com
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