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Love Is Why the Sky Is Blue


by Erika Morrell
Love is meeting someone by the pencil sharpener.

—Peanuts



In our daily lives there are so many things we do that we fail to see as opportunities to find the Love we seek. We meet these tasks or time of the day, people or circumstances in an almost trancelike state, completely unconscious of what is going on around us and with whom we are having an experience. The opportunity to find Love and/or see it is constantly there, even in the simplest moments of our lives.


So I was thinking about this idea of meeting the “perfect mate” and how so many of us have a fantasy of who that person will be, what they will look like, and where we will meet them. I am constantly shocked by just how many people miss their Soul Mate because they fail to recognize them. The person did not appear how we thought they would, behave as we thought they should, or was met under circumstances different from what we expected.


I had someone in my practice that was looking to get married. She was dating a lot of very eligible men and would report back on her dates. There was one man she spoke of that she absolutely did not want to see again. Her reasoning was very clear: He was a nice guy, had a great job, and was interesting, however, she wasn’t attracted to him—and she thought he dressed a little funny. She never would have given him a second look had I not intervened and asked her to please go out with him three more times. They have been happily married now eight years and have two children. He did not show up looking like she expected her Soul Mate to look, she did not initially feel the way she expected to feel upon meeting the man she was going to marry. She would have walked away and never looked back. She would have missed him.


A gentleman came to see me because he was trying to decide if he should leave his wife. The relationship had changed and he was wondering if there was someone out there that was better for him. I knew that that was not true, and that their Love was something he was not going to be able to recreate. The issue in the relationship was very simple—he had really only stopped seeing his wife clearly because life had gotten in the way. They were both working parents with little time to be together. He had stopped being able to experience who they were together. He had an illusion about married life. If he had walked away he would have let go of the person he was meant to be with in this lifetime.


There was a young woman who had been single a long time. She had met a man at work who had asked her more than once to go to lunch with him. This upset her. She was convinced he was not interested in her because he did not ask her out for dinner. She had created the illusion for herself that a man was only interested in her if he asked her out to dinner.


Our ability to see people clearly, and not measure them against our illusions of who they should be or how they should behave, is a big part of finding the right partner and being happy once we have them.


Meeting Someone by the Pencil Sharpener:

· Find Love Anywhere

Love can be found anywhere. There is no place or situation that is the perfect set up for finding Love. It can show up anywhere and at any time. In a relationship you can create a feeling of Love by changing your surroundings, even if that special place is a simple little space. Somewhere quiet, with no distractions, will allow the two of you to just be together and connect.


· Keep Your Eyes Open

Set the intention to see everyone. Try not to judge or jump to conclusions about people. Real, lasting Love takes time to unfold. It does not show up immediately despite the illusions we hold. If you are in a relationship, take time to smell the roses. Acknowledge your partner for all they bring to your relationship. See all the Love they give to you, in all the ways they do.


· Don’t Let Immediate Attraction Be an Indication

Attraction is not an indicator of a relationship’s future success.

Attraction can take time to develop. In every single one of the people I have supported in finding authentic Love and, eventually, marriage, attraction did not develop until later in the relationship. Their relationships were based on who they are, not what they look like. The Love developed based on the relationship. When we don’t give someone a chance based on our level of attraction, we may just be walking away from someone that, if we were to spend more time with them, could end up as the Love of our life. If you find yourself having a hard time being attracted to your partner, shake it up a little. Go somewhere you have never been before. Sometimes just a change of scenery will help you to see your partner clearly again.


· Allow Yourself to Connect to People

Each and every person on this planet is 100 percent unique. Take a moment to see what is special about every person you meet.


· Appreciate

Change your point of view. When you are able to appreciate what is in front of you, whether it is a mate or a date, you are a lot more likely to find Love by the pencil sharpener.


E-mail your questions to SoulMateMedium@aol.com and remember to Live in Love®. Tune in to my Monday-night radio show, The Soul Mate Medium Experience, at http://www.latalkradio.com/Erika.php or download my podcast on iTunes.

©2010 Erika Morrell




Erika Morrell
Soul Intuitive
& Medium
Erika Morrell, Soul Mate Medium™ has her heritage to thank for her many gifts.


The Great Granddaughter of Carmella Colchie of Italy known for her ability to prevent and heal Malocchio ( known as the evil eye) and the Currie family known in the Highlands of Scotland as the possessors of the “Currie Coin”. When drinking the water that had been mixed with this coin it had the ability to heal all disease.


With the psychic ability to read minds, predict future events, have prophetic dreams, and speak to Angels; Erika was showing evidence of that deeply spiritual heritage at the ripe old age of three.


Dedicating most of her life to learning as many modalities and traditions of healing as she could, Erika started her very successful privet healing practice in her home town of New York City in 1991.


Working with everyone from students to celebrities to members of the Royal Family, she quickly became one of the most sought after healers in the industry. Erika was known for her eclectic blend of techniques, down to earth approaches and practical applications of complex spiritual principles.


Erika’s special talent was supporting people in finding love, and not just love, but their true Soul Mates. She started to observe an alarming trend; client after client was on the verge of missing their Soul Mate, not by means of a break-up, but by the lack of recognition that their Soul Mate was staring them RIGHT IN THE FACE and they failed to recognize them.


Erika supports people in transcending desire, fantasy and expectation to attain themselves and a true Soul Mate love. She has supported 38 people in finding wedded bliss and countless others in finding the relationship of their hearts, earning her the title Soul Mate Medium™ Enlightener of Love.™




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