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Angels, Guides, &Loving Spirits:
Love Letters
Fingerprint: Always let your values be your guide
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by Erika Morrell |
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“Values are like fingerprints. Nobody’s are the same, but you leave ‘em all over everything you do.”
- Elvis Presley
You are conscious (or at least open to it) so you are aware how our world has changed. I could make a judgmental statement, however as we know it just “is.” You are aware that as the conscious ones we are being called to action on behalf of light. As the light, I am constantly driven to ardent exasperation and/or somber repudiation. What has happened to us? Yes, I can list, as most of you can, the historical, political and economical and technological reasons why the world is the way it is. How can we allow so much, that is just so clearly not in alignment be expectable? Where are our values?
In my work I am constantly posing this question: What are your values? One aspect of this question that I find fascinating is that global values are easily accessed by people, however the personal values (if they exist at all) are not so easily accessed. Values having to do with the environment, animals, the economy, food, religion, and the treatment of children are all fairly accessible to people. They are available for discussion, their truths are conscious to them. But when asked about their own personal value system, or “code,” as a wise gentleman friend of mine calls it, things become a little less clear. Sometimes I am asked what I mean. Other times I am told “I never really thought about it.”
So I will ask you: What are your values?
Your value system is in direct proportion to your level of self-love. Your value system, or personal code, expresses how valuable you believe you are, and based on that value, how you expect yourself to be treated by others or, even more important how you will treat yourself.
Values mirror our level of self- love. If you do not have any values or a personal code, you are failing to express and live with the level of self-love that is required to have that “happily ever after.” You have what I refer to as situational values. Based on the situation, your value system will change. How you will treat yourself and allow yourself to be treated will change based on the situation you are faced with.
If you have situational values, based on how you “feel” or an agenda of another, you will participate in the world based on how the world chooses to define you and treat you. A client of mine was interested in being married. She did not desire to sleep with the man she was dating, however, she felt that in order to have a man be truly interested in her she had to sleep with him early in the relationship. Time after time she was devastated that she would never hear from a man again. Her Value System was undefined and therefore open to being situational. She was looking for her worth in another and was willing to compromise herself. A male client of mine would say he was “…honest most of the time.” I had pointed out that you are honest or you are not. His honesty depended on the situation and his level of uncomfortable feelings in telling the truth. He did not want to be perceived as a failure, and choose to appear as something he was not.
Once again all situational values come from a lack of self- love. As a result, both of these people were met with the reflection of a lack of self- love. My female client was constantly met with rejection, and my male client was constantly met with people who conned him and made him feel like a failure. Without that base- level value system in place, how you are treated in your relationship will be manifested more from insecurity, pathology, desperation and history. You will look for someone else to show you your worth, and prove to you that you are loveable and valuable. By the way, you will never feel loved or valued until you have claimed your value for yourself.
A Personal Code provides you with a compass and gauge, where your commitment to yourself and love for yourself has you participating in the world based on who you are. (“I am sorry, I do not sleep with a man until we have a relationship.” “I do not invest in people who do not value me.” “I am a trust worthy person and only work with people I can trust.”) It is who you have decided to be and how you have decided to be treated based on your self -value.
Once you are clear and committed to your value system, you know what you need to request from others to be treated in a way that reflects that self-love. If you stay in integrity with your values, the people in your life fall very quickly into one of two categories: those who are in alignment with those values and those who are not. You know who needs to be let go of because they are unable to treat you appropriately, and who to invest in, because clearly they are invested in you.
John Dewey said, “A child grows into tomorrow how he lives today.” In the Hermetic tradition the saying is “…as above, so below…as within, so without.” Then there is the ancient proverb “As the twig is bent, the tree is inclined.” Basically, without values to clearly guide you, a person will end up in whatever direction that lack of Love or human bankruptcy takes them. Bankrupted values, bankrupted people, bankrupted people, bankrupted world, both figuratively and literal. You don’t believe me? Just look around…
How deeply do you love yourself? If you were the person, place or thing that means the most to you, how would you care for yourself? How would you expect/demand others treat you? What are your values?
Values are a mark of a healthy person who is having a healthy life; someone of light, who is responding to the call to action. Value yourself like the Divine gift you are!
© Erika Morrell
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Erika Morrell
Soul Intuitive
& Medium
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Erika Morrell, Soul Mate Medium™ has her heritage to thank for her many gifts.
The Great Granddaughter of Carmella Colchie of Italy known for her ability to prevent and heal Malocchio ( known as the evil eye) and the Currie family known in the Highlands of Scotland as the possessors of the “Currie Coin”. When drinking the water that had been mixed with this coin it had the ability to heal all disease.
With the psychic ability to read minds, predict future events, have prophetic dreams, and speak to Angels; Erika was showing evidence of that deeply spiritual heritage at the ripe old age of three.
Dedicating most of her life to learning as many modalities and traditions of healing as she could, Erika started her very successful privet healing practice in her home town of New York City in 1991.
Working with everyone from students to celebrities to members of the Royal Family, she quickly became one of the most sought after healers in the industry. Erika was known for her eclectic blend of techniques, down to earth approaches and practical applications of complex spiritual principles.
Erika’s special talent was supporting people in finding love, and not just love, but their true Soul Mates. She started to observe an alarming trend; client after client was on the verge of missing their Soul Mate, not by means of a break-up, but by the lack of recognition that their Soul Mate was staring them RIGHT IN THE FACE and they failed to recognize them.
Erika supports people in transcending desire, fantasy and expectation to attain themselves and a true Soul Mate love. She has supported 38 people in finding wedded bliss and countless others in finding the relationship of their hearts, earning her the title Soul Mate Medium™ Enlightener of Love.™
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