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Alternative Health & Healing:
Transformational Healing
through the Violet Flame!
Today’s Subject:
Making relationships work with opposite approaches and styles in life
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by Eva Kettles |
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Have you ever experienced pressure within yourself that comes from a self inflicted idea of having to do something within a certain time frame? I guess everybody has. We put a lot of to do’s on our daily list and race through the day just to get everything done and wonder in the evening what have we really achieved? If we allow ourselves to slow down one day the list gets even longer the next day. It feels like there is no way out and the struggle gets worse.
I actually am in this rat race myself right now and I remember when I had more time and used spirit to guide me. I was listening to my inner voice, I had the time to listen, to ask and to be quiet so that answers and solutions could arise. Now I am filling every minute of the day with a lot of to do’s thinking that if I get that done “now”, I might free myself up later. But what I create with this is “living and preparing the future”. Do I really free up later??? Or do I just find “one more” thing to do??? In my case I know the answer. I find something that could wait and I will try to hook it off momentarily.
This is my pattern and the universe has forced me to think about it. I cut into the index finger of my writing hand which is my right hand and I had to have surgery on my tendons. They were both cut through and that incident clearly wanted to tell me to slow down. But all that I am trying to do up to this very moment is to get the same amount done just in much less time and only one hand. I realize the call and that’s why I am writing about it now.
My lovely husband is the opposite of me. He loves to be in the moment, likes to play as much and as hard as he possibly can and so it feels as if we both try to balance each other by being so extreme. When I think in pictures it feels like I try to run and he tries to stand.
Both of us feel the same frustration. It doesn’t feel great to be pulled back or pulled forward. Trying to reach a goal in a relationship with different approaches can teach us a lot of patience and letting go of expectations. When I realized that no one approach is right nor wrong, I realized that I needed to look at where my actions have gotten me so far. I hurt myself. I made a difficult situation more difficult and now it is time to stop the spiral of destruction. I am sharing this from my heart because I know that many of us probably have similar circumstances and we simply swim against the flow.
I know my personal solution can be found in silence. Finding time for moments of deep regeneration of doing nothing and scheduling play times into my busy life is the answer. Letting go of judgment that I internally put on the value of each action is necessary to help enjoy the free time and value the play times equally to working hours.
For whom are we forcing ourselves so much? Whom do we try to please? What do we need to prove? Why do we need to prove?
Is our life really a disaster if we get “there” later, wherever that
is where we want to arrive? What happens when we have arrived?
Embracing the differences in our partners is a very challenging act, but if we surrender to their style and decisions, we find that we learn to see a whole different page of life and that this is so much more important than to get wherever we want to arrive. We see with new eyes, we hear with new ears and we feel with a more open heart.
If someone is slower than you, just relax and walk with love in your heart and curiosity about what you get to see while you are on the path. You might see opportunities that you would have not been able to become aware of by being a focussed over-achiever that runs straight to the finish line.
I had to write this for myself. I thank you all for walking with me and helping me to speak my personal truth at least once a month.
With love,
Eva Kettles=
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Eva Kettles,
Spiritual Channel & Healer
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Eva Kettles is a spiritual channel, and guide who offers a sensitive, confidential, non-intrusive, results-oriented approach of clearing the pathway to becoming your True Self….consciously uncovering your Divine Essence.
Mrs. Kettles acts as a “loving detective” to give you clear guidance to your life questions. Working with the healing energy of the Violet Flame, Eva will transform your blocks in all the dimensions that make up your entire being so you can live according to your divine plan and purpose. Release deep seated fears, thought patterns and beliefs that keep you from expressing your authentic self.
Through a process of forgiveness and with the loving presence and help of our spirit guides, Eva enables healing to take place in mind, body, heart and soul. Eva offers individual guidance, fertility counseling, premarital guidance, couples coaching, space clearing and prayer/blessings.
Eva was born and raised in Germany. After finishing business school in Switzerland she discovered her ‘real’ passion for the eternal questions of Life that everybody has, but to which few people discover the answers.
To that end, she decided to become a holistic practitioner. During this education she got a wide background in all available alternative therapy disciplines.
Towards the end of her studies she decided to specialize in Bio-photonic Light Therapy (by Darbic, Dr. Acquillera, France), Frequency/Electrotherapy (Megawave 150), Color puncture, Regenaplex Cellular Therapy (Switzerland), Karma work, Hypnosis and Forgiveness work and opened her own practice first in Munich, than another one in Lucerne, Switzerland. Later, she established a healthy practice in New York City before moving to Ojai, California in March of 2004.
Eva was the protégé of Dr. Gutow in Germany. . He dedicated his whole life to finding out the reasons behind all illnesses. He took into account food, drinks, toxic surroundings or materials, homeopathic remedies in too high frequencies, astral positions, divine paths, karmic constellations, spells, entities and energies that block our good to come forth.
Dr. Gutow could access the highest self or spiritual guidance of each person and discovered that Eva had the ability to do the same work that he was doing. Using the analytical test that was developed by Dr. Gutow, Eva could immediately find out which therapy would work for which client. She explains: “It is like a key and a lock. We have to find the right key to unlock our good. Some keys work, some don’t!”
Having been blessed with many teachers, including Nadeen Shatyam , she learned that once you trust your inner voice you become connected to the universal truth and you do not need to look outside of yourself.
Everything is within us when we finally learn to believe it. Her goal is to help you to find and establish that trust in yourself. Having walked the path to self return, she knows how to guide others.
Phone:(805) 646-9399
www.uncoveryour
essence.com
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