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Alternative Health & Healing:
Transformational Healing
through the Violet Flame!
Today’s Subject: Loving everything about you! Relationships under test!
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by Eva Kettles |
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At first it seems so easy to love all that we find in our new love. We are falling in love with the charms and the talents and the beauty of each other. We are focused on that which seems to be the “good” sides in each other and we fail to notice anything “wrong” in our partner. In these times we might look through the rose colored glasses of a new born love that just carries us away into being blinded of anything else but what we want to see.
One day this amazing blindingly perfect perception of the partner we love seems to fade for some mysterious reason. Our mind begins to compare, to judge and to dislike some of the actions of our partner. We struggle with our feelings and with unconditional love. In marriages that can be fatal, when we begin to think that the new discovered sides of our partner is now the reality about this person. We might get stuck in a new opinion, an idea of our partner that is suddenly a not so “idealized” partner anymore and we watch him or her carefully in order to find out what to believe. Disliking certain patterns and actions of someone gets us easily bound to believe the opposite of the person we once so adored and loved. The “negative” components become more and more real to us and we might fail to notice that we helped in creating it through our inability to stay neutral in our judgement. We will always be able to convince ourselves of any truth and we will always be able to find reason to believe what we want to believe about someone. It might be very difficult to realize this while the relationship is spiraling down already - we might fail to notice how we actually participate in manifesting what we are now starting to believe about the other person.
I guess almost every relationship comes to a point where the relationship needs to prove its own realness. This is happening in order to separate the wheat from the chaff. I believe that the consciousness of the relationship is under test. It is a test for each partner and a test for the deepness of love in the relationship.
This test is an opportunity to widen our own approach in our ability to love. It gives us the opportunity to love deeper and surrender to love unconditionally. We might find out that the partner we love is not perfect. We might find out that we are not perfect either and are still loved.
Every relationship and every individual has to overcome their own dark side, their own demons, whatever we may choose or want to call that which has power over us.
When those demons and the aggressions that take place in a difficult time in a relationship start to hurt us, it is difficult to think about the person that seems to pull the trigger on us. It is difficult to even look at their point of view or feel into what they might feel. But this is absolutely necessary if we want to take our relationship ability to a new level, to a level of a higher consciousness.
From there we can take ourselves out of the story of our own hurt, we can move beyond our judgements and anger and we can connect on a deeper level of love. It is easier to get there when both partners are able and willing to do that, otherwise it feels like we fight alone for the freedom of the relationship and we most likely won’t be successful. If we find a way to speak from our heart and to listen from our heart we can build a bridge and find out what really lies beneath what our idea is of what we think we see. We can move beyond anger and help our partner to move beyond their demons and our partner can help us too so we can leave our own prison behind. We need to connect to the higher - the better - Self of our partner just like we were able when we once looked at each other through the rose colored glasses, but now in a way that we are not blind anymore, but know all that is and are open to see all of what is without the judgement and the criticism and the “trying to be right”.
At one point in time we get the chance to move beyond our human self and make this world a better place by seeing the best in each other even if we are not perfect, but help create a perfect person by believing this person is real and is standing here in front of us. If you believe in your partner, and he or she believes in you, you will both be able to create the vacuum for each other to lift each other up into the place of your True Selves which is that which you were able to see when you have fallen in love. It was all there and it is still all there, but we actually became blind after we saw. So now, take off your blindfold and see what is behind that which you might have helped to place in front of the light of your partner. Help to unfold his or her true personality once again and become united on a much deeper level. The level of unconditional love and the level of transcendence. When we know every side and every angle, the “good” and the “dark” , then we truly are able to love because their is nothing which keeps us from believing in each other.
I wish for you all that in your relationships you are ready to unleash all of yourself and to be ready to let your partner show all of him or herself to you. Don’t be afraid! Use your compassion and your love to learn to understand that which you might be challenged with at first. Let it sit at first and look at it with your heart then you will find that it is not scary and that it is very lovable just the way it is. And if you love it the way it is, that’s when it can be transformed into its own highest Self. The demon is not needed anymore to play a game with you. You will be set free and your partner will be set free too.
That’s when you both have managed to transcend yourself and the relationship.
Good luck!
Eva Kettles
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Eva Kettles,
Spiritual Channel & Healer
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Eva Kettles is a spiritual channel, and guide who offers a sensitive, confidential, non-intrusive, results-oriented approach of clearing the pathway to becoming your True Self….consciously uncovering your Divine Essence.
Mrs. Kettles acts as a “loving detective” to give you clear guidance to your life questions. Working with the healing energy of the Violet Flame, Eva will transform your blocks in all the dimensions that make up your entire being so you can live according to your divine plan and purpose. Release deep seated fears, thought patterns and beliefs that keep you from expressing your authentic self.
Through a process of forgiveness and with the loving presence and help of our spirit guides, Eva enables healing to take place in mind, body, heart and soul. Eva offers individual guidance, fertility counseling, premarital guidance, couples coaching, space clearing and prayer/blessings.
Eva was born and raised in Germany. After finishing business school in Switzerland she discovered her ‘real’ passion for the eternal questions of Life that everybody has, but to which few people discover the answers.
To that end, she decided to become a holistic practitioner. During this education she got a wide background in all available alternative therapy disciplines.
Towards the end of her studies she decided to specialize in Bio-photonic Light Therapy (by Darbic, Dr. Acquillera, France), Frequency/Electrotherapy (Megawave 150), Color puncture, Regenaplex Cellular Therapy (Switzerland), Karma work, Hypnosis and Forgiveness work and opened her own practice first in Munich, than another one in Lucerne, Switzerland. Later, she established a healthy practice in New York City before moving to Ojai, California in March of 2004.
Eva was the protégé of Dr. Gutow in Germany. . He dedicated his whole life to finding out the reasons behind all illnesses. He took into account food, drinks, toxic surroundings or materials, homeopathic remedies in too high frequencies, astral positions, divine paths, karmic constellations, spells, entities and energies that block our good to come forth.
Dr. Gutow could access the highest self or spiritual guidance of each person and discovered that Eva had the ability to do the same work that he was doing. Using the analytical test that was developed by Dr. Gutow, Eva could immediately find out which therapy would work for which client. She explains: “It is like a key and a lock. We have to find the right key to unlock our good. Some keys work, some don’t!”
Having been blessed with many teachers, including Nadeen Shatyam , she learned that once you trust your inner voice you become connected to the universal truth and you do not need to look outside of yourself.
Everything is within us when we finally learn to believe it. Her goal is to help you to find and establish that trust in yourself. Having walked the path to self return, she knows how to guide others.
Phone:(805) 646-9399
www.uncoveryour
essence.com
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